Guys, you know when a girl says a guy had a bad personality, it was just code word for him being ugly or not interested in her, right?

[Anonymous]

Please tell me you've caught onto this by now. Like, you think it's a coincidence that ugly guys all just magically have bad personalities and hot guys magically have flocks of hot women to choose from because their personalities coincidentally are just great? Stop falling for that lie that personality is what matters. Looks matter first, personality closes the deal. But if the looks aren't there, the personality doesn't matter. No one cares about the rare exception that proves the rule.

[Anonymous]

This is dumb lol

It's true that everyone has to find their partner attractive, but if a woman is with a guy with a garbage personality it's because she also has a garbage personality. Toxic people gravitate towards other toxic people.

[Asker]

So all the ugly single guys just have bad personalities? Is that really why they're single and all the attractive guys aren't?

[Opinion Owner]

Attractive men can get attractive women. Attractive men with bad personalities can get attractive women with equally bad personalities.

Men who refuse to work on the parts of their appearance they CAN control (go to the gym, gets a fresh haircut, wear nice clothes) have no social skills, are weak/timid but still want the beautiful women they haven't put in the work to get... yea, those guys are going to struggle. You have to pursue people on your level. I know dudes who are absolute losers who can still get a girl, granted the girls aren't anything special, but they are the type of girls those men deserve.

[Asker]

That's kind of the point though. Attractive women aren't actually chasing after personalities. They wouldn't even give an ugly a chance. Not that they should, I just think it's important to remind guys that looks are the main filter.

[Anonymous]

More often than not yeah. I would say this every case. But it is the majority.

[Opinion Owner]

Wouldn't*

[Ironic_Method]

This has not been the case in my experience, but you do you.