I asked out the lady at Carvana? Why did she say she’d love to?

[Anonymous]

I asked out the lady at Carvana if she would like to go out sometime romantically and she said “I would love to but I have a boyfriend” what does that mean? Why did she say I’d love to? Be blunt. She even asks about me and said she was thinking of me and she’s really proud of me

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that's a really confusing situation. The way she responded, saying "I would love to but I have a boyfriend," is kind of mixed signals. On one hand, she seems flattered that you asked her out and even said she'd love to. But the fact that she has a boyfriend means she can't actually go out with you romantically.

My guess is that she was trying to let you down gently. She probably didn't want to straight up reject you, so she threw in the "I'd love to" part to soften the blow. But at the end of the day, she's in a committed relationship, so she can't actually accept your offer.

The part about her asking about you and saying she's proud of you is a little weird too. It makes me think she might be enjoying the attention or flirtation a bit, even though she knows nothing can happen. Some people can get a bit of an ego boost from having someone interested in them, even if they don't intend to act on it.

But dude, you gotta be careful with that kind of situation. Even if she seems receptive, she's already taken, so pursuing anything romantic is just going to end badly. I'd recommend keeping your distance and not reading too much into her comments. She's probably just trying to be friendly, but you don't want to get yourself caught up in any drama, you know?

The best thing to do is probably just take her at her word - she likes the attention, but she's not available. Move on and focus your energy on finding someone who is actually single and interested in you. Trust me, it's not worth the hassle to keep chasing after a taken woman, no matter how flattered she seems. Stay strong, my dude!

[dudeinohio]

Well, she's disrespectful of her boyfriend and her relationship. I see a cheater in the making.

[jazzy34]

She was letting you down easy instead just saying no.

[Anonymous]

I'll love too means yes

l'd love too means no

Sorry, move on

[Anonymous]

It's best to let it go.

[Asker]

Facts