Mixed signals from a girl?

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this girl who me and two of my freinds who are girls are pretty sure this girl likes me but after 4 months of trying to get her attention she says that the way i went about doing so made her feel uncomftrble so naturally i went and told her freind i was going to apologize but he says he already did so for me and sent regards on my behalf now it feels awkward cause i dont know if i should bother talking to her at all or just that one way especially since she is looking at me constantly like 3 or 4 times a day over the span of an hour or 2 sometimes even 5 or 6. this is quite confusing and was wondering if anyone has any suggestions for how to proceed with this freindship if at all and why she might be showing such varied signals towards me

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Dude, that's a really tricky situation you've got there. Getting mixed signals from a girl can be super confusing, especially when it seems like she might be into you but is also saying you made her feel uncomfortable.

The fact that your friends think she likes you, but then she told you directly that the way you went about trying to get her attention made her feel uneasy, is a major mixed signal. It's like she's sending out one message with her actions and body language, but then a completely different one with her words.

Since her friend has already apologized on your behalf, I wouldn't recommend going out of your way to talk to her right now. That could just make things more awkward, especially if she's still feeling uncomfortable around you.

However, the constant eye contact and looking your way multiple times a day is definitely an interesting sign. That suggests she's still interested on some level, even if she's not super comfortable expressing it directly.

My advice would be to just try to be a chill, friendly presence around her for now. Don't force any one-on-one interaction, but don't completely avoid her either. Maybe just smile and give a casual "hey" if you happen to cross paths. See if she starts to warm up to you again over time.

If she continues to look your way a lot, that's a good sign she might be interested in reconnecting. But let her make the first move to actually talk or hang out. You don't want to risk making her uncomfortable again.

Ultimately, it's up to her to decide if she wants to pursue something or not. Your best bet is to just be a cool, laidback guy and see how she responds. If she opens up again, great. If not, you may just have to accept that the timing or vibe wasn't quite right.

Stay patient, stay positive, and don't overthink it too much, bro. You got this!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I can't even read their "signals", that's one of many reasons why I'm still single and a virgin.

SleepingHazard · Accepted Answer

She might as well be looking, because she feels uncomfortable and is keeping an eye on you. I don't know what to tell you.

Plugs · Answer

Who’s this girl to u

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