Girls, would you wear a t-shirt in public that says don't approach me i'm not interested, for guys to read so you don't get approached?

[Anonymous]

[Nikki1989]

No, I am quite capable of telling men I am not interested.

[Anonymous]

I would prefer it on a hat or wristband. A t shirt is a lot of real estate in an outfit.

[Asker]

so you really dont want guys approaching u?

[Opinion Owner]

Depends on the guy and the reason. If he has altruistic motives and he's somewhat normal then it's fine but anything else is a no go. I e a mad obsessive, wanting to get close to me for other reasons, using me and others around me. Trying to manipulate me. Generally a shitty person then no.

[Asker]

i just assumed women and girls always said no regardless lol

[Opinion Owner]

No. Assuming is why we aren't approached, just think any no is one closer to a yes. You don't give up when looking for anything you want like a car or a house or even where you left your keys. the same should be for dating but you should give up looking when you find someone. That's the part a lot of men and women forget about. Always looking for something better than building together to be the greatness.

Probably shouldn't take advice from me as I'm also single.

[Asker]

so if a guy approached you normally and said hi, i know this is random i find you attractive and i was wondering if i could get your social or phone # is that too fast because you want a conversation?

[Opinion Owner]

A lot of variables for me. As I have had to move it will be a no due to wanting to move back to where I was last year so it wouldn't work out. I hate where I am currently and looking to leave asap and not ever return.

Build a conversation first, don't just go in asking for things, it's off putting. Say you are at the gym, go on the machine next door and start chatting or find something to ask them. Just an example.

[Asker]

im a guy, i would say sure here's my #, guys are simple lol.

[laraWM]

I could have done it 😂

[Asker]

Lara has a different method

[laraWM]

What method? 😅

[Asker]

Swift kick in the balls— aka the “low blow”

[laraWM]

I guess it'd be effective but I'd never do it 😅

[Asker]

Me approaching @larawm

Me: hey you look pretty can I have your #

You: not interested

Me: come on I’ll take you out for dinner

You: not interested

Me: how about

You: I said no, *kick!*

Me: 😳 *falls over*

Me: fuck I need to go to the convenience store to grab a bag of ice 🧊

You: LMAO 🤣

[laraWM]

😅🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

I’m sure my sisters would laugh and be on your side and my guy friends would be like brooo she’s such a boss! She handled her biz well that kick in the balls was epic

Me: stop taking her side!!

[laraWM]

You'd kinda deserve it but I guess a slap would be more appropriate

[Asker]

Lara is flabbergasted by my response

[laraWM]

True

[Asker]

Nah the kick the balls has a bigger effect because of the facial sequence of

😳
😮
😡
😭
😡
😭
😭
🤢
🤮

Lara would be like and that’s how it’s done boo ya 💅

Me: I fucking hate you and your fucking boots

You: oops 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

Lucky to be a girl

[laraWM]

Very realistic faces 😂😂

[Asker]

Yea I’m not faking that’s how I would feel if you kicked me in the balls, I’d have a look of shock because it’s the moment of impact, than I’d be pissed because th pain is setting in, then id cry because the pain is excruciating then id keel over because i feel nauseous and id probably throw up

[Asker]

Oh and I forgot one thing

[laraWM]

You know it's painful for us too

[Asker]

I’d call you a bitch for kicking me in the balls, just keeping it real lol

[laraWM]

Of course 😅

[Asker]

Of course what?

[laraWM]

I'd expect it

[Asker]

So if I made all those facial reactions and called you the b-word how would you react to all of this would you be like 🤷🏻‍♀️ 😂 and walk away?

[laraWM]

I'd be worried if you threw up

[Asker]

So as long as I just cried and had to kneel on the floor that wouldn’t bother you so much, what a savage

[laraWM]

Assuming you deserved it, but as I said before I wouldn't do it

[Asker]

I mean I’ve bothered my little cousins before and been kicked in the nuts sooo

[laraWM]

How little? Tell them it hurts

[Asker]

8 years old, I put on a scary mask and turned off the lights and grabbed them from behind and they got scared and swung their foot backwards and boom! Below the belt 🥴

[Asker]

@larawm is left speechless

[laraWM]

They were really young so they probably didn't realise what happened

[Asker]

Oh they know it’s in comedy movies so they learned

[laraWM]

Yes I mean they probably didn't realise that it hurt a lot

[Asker]

Plus they are girls so they found it extra funny

[laraWM]

Yes from the movies, you should have told them how much it hurts

[Asker]

They just find it funny I’m bigger then them and I hit the ground so easily 🥴 😳

[laraWM]

I don't know, maybe they thought you were exaggerating it? 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

I mean I sorta was, it hurt but not be on the ground for 10 mins hurt…I made that part up 🙄

[laraWM]

What? Really?

[Asker]

Well I was down for 5 mins but I remained on the ground for an additional 5 mins

[laraWM]

Five minutes seem bad enough, but why five more minutes? Were you okay?

[Asker]

I wanted to fake it for 5 mins so maybe they get the message not to do it again, until when I rolled over on my back and I was like owww and one of them goes on the sofa 🛋️ and says let me jump on them! I’m like nooo lol I’m done leave me alone and I got up and left the room

[laraWM]

Yes I get it but you should probably have told the truth to them

[Asker]

@larawm just buy me a protective cup and jock strap and I’ll wear it at all times with an adult male diaper, the solution 🤷🏻‍♂️

[laraWM]

I don't think it's the solution 😂

[Asker]

That’s why the protective cup was made for males

[laraWM]

But not for eveyday life?