I've had lots of guys say they could do my job with ease. Like wtf these guys wouldn't even qualify for my job š there is no way they could stay home and MILF all day like I do! Imagine having to be a hot baddie and caring for kids nonstop, 24/7 ... like they could never
These are the same guys that eat fast food every night, live in a pigsty, change their bed sheets once a year. They have never changed a diaper, dealt with a temper tantrum, or the countless other stuff you have to deal with. Give them a week as a SAHM and they will beg to go back
How often do you change bed sheets? I don't even have any, so I presume that's wrong.
I don't eat fast food because I'm fiscally responsible. Only when I have a woman do I have to buy her fast food. I've changed a diaper, dealt with a temper tantrum, and... well I'm not sure what you mean by countless other stuff, but I presume I've done a lot of it.
"They have never changed a diaper, dealt with a temper tantrum, or the countless other stuff you have to deal with."
Ooh nooo that is soo harrrd. Please don't. It is so difficult to change a diaper.
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That is why you women are known as the weaker sex. We men have to handle your cry sessions.
We might think it's hard, but from a global perspective, it isn't as difficult as what men have done for their families throughout history. It's similar to a toddler trying to hold a plate that weighs 5 kg; for them, it seems incredibly challenging and they might believe no one else could lift it. However, for an adult, lifting such a weight is relatively easy.
This is called Psychological Naive Realism I think.
until you've done heavy labor for 8-12 hrs a day, 5-7 days a week then don't decide that a man can't do a job. He may need some training but end up being completely capable of carrying out the duties required with more than adequate skill and dedication. Men are adaptable and can conform to many different job requirements for what's required to be proficient and acceptable for the labor and reasonability's that the job entails. Don't sell men short just because you believe they are incapable, there are many stay at home dads that do a great job and the kids are doing fine.
I've watched my husband struggle to help me with 50% of what I do while he was on paternity leave lol he claims it's much more difficult than his job and he'd rather work anyday than be with the kids. Many stay at home dad's just barely are keeping their kids alive. They aren't thriving unless the mom is doing coming home from work and picking up their slack
As a Stay-at-home Dad... I defend the rights of stay-at-home Moms. They're just like me except they don't have a giant monster penis and bench 350 with one arm.
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One of the busiest and demanding roles there is... period.
NO boss, no customers, clients, colleagues telling you your work isn't good enough, doing commuting and the likes. It can be done and it's interesting how the feminist movement didn't ever suggest that swap of roles for men to get to choose to become SAHM is telling.
The power of controlling the household while seeking breadwinning power has been one way.
You ask a Gen Z guy what he'd do with a kept lifestyle provided by a (generous, benevolent, kind and respectful) woman (unlike what women historically HAD to deal with when the roles were reversed) that he had to keep the house at a comfortable and sustainable standard of comfort for him and his family then you'd see queues of dudes signing up. Older guys would leap at that if they weren't already washed out with work.
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With all your kids and all that goes with that..
And as a guy , who had two in childcare while working a demanding role , when there was basically no internet.
No thanks , your pay scale sucks and quite frankly its thankless and far too tough for the likes of a very " Sabai Sabai " guy like me.. plus I would have had to deal with pregnancy , there is absolutely no way I could even do 50% of your gig and survive.
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I 100 agree with you.
That is some rough stuff and people just seem to be against it because if you aren't 'working a job' you are considered lazy for some reason.
Even this housework and kids and keeping nice and sexy for your man is a job all on its own.
Listen if your hubby makes enough to cover everything. It is absolutely fine to be the minister of the interior, making sure the hubby doesn't need to do anything more outside of his work, is also a job.
Imagine going into a home you aren't needed to do anything and just relax with your hot ass all hell wife.
lol you are absolutely right! When our kids were younger, my wife was a SAHM and her "job" was 1000x harder than mine - but more so, her "role" was invaluable for the kids :)
P. S. I do remember a few times when I'd be pulling into the driveway after a long day and she'd be jumping in her car for a sanity getaway lol :)
@Apple1996 lol she'd do that too when the youngest was a baby. And I always knew it was bedlam if I saw her already in her car as I was pulling in lol
Actually being a stay at home mom is one of the hardest jobs in the world. When I clock out of work I'm off. But when your a mother you never off. My mother had this rhyme she use to tell me. She you to say a man can work from sun to sun but a mother's work is never done. A stay at home mom is grossly over worked and under pain. Being a man that was raised by an amazing mother my hats off to you. I just want to say thank you for being an AMAZING MOM!!!
Your so welcome and don't listen to what people say. That's something you don't know how hard it is until you do it!
It is a job but like any other it can be done by almost anyone. Women are particularly better at being a householder than men are. That they're given more support and encouragement when growing up is a sign that boys aren't being brought up to be independent. Who's been bringing up children as they keep saying to the world?
I think whether or not itās āhardā has a lot to do with whether or not the person enjoys it, the age and number of kids involved, and wether or not they have a partner who helps. A lot of the women who complain are probably with someone who never gives them a break.
I don't disagree that being a stay at home mom is a very important job. I don't think it's that hard though. Especially not the way most mothers' do it these days. They plop their kid down in front of the TV and put it on nickelodeon. Every so often they have to change the channel to keep the TV from idling too long.
I on the other hand had a pick axe, shovel, saw and pipe in my hands all day. I have burns on my arms from walking through a root infested trench that's 5ft deep. I hauled 600 lob of rock and 200lbs of concrete on my back. Also I had to smell someone else's poo all day. I don't think the difficulty level is the same, and find it humorous when some say so. "Being a mother is the hardest job." Tell that to my back.
Big boobs, sure. That's not necessarily something associated with being a SAHM. How are you feeding your baby in a way that hurts your back? Most women I see are leaned back in a chair with their suckling babe. The only thing I can picture hurting your back would be if you were like doubled over with your baby between your legs trying to drop a teet on it.
I bend over. That doesn't hurt the back too bad on most days. You should go to mattress firm and get a good bed. That'll solve that problem.
See I just mainsplained away all your issues. Can we agree my job is harder now?
Leaning back slows the flow too much. Baby can get frustrated and I'd get mastitis if I don't. It's called dangle feeding if you want to look into it š
Moms breastfeed in all kinds of positions. Also once the baby gets older they're doing crazy shit like trying to breastfeed upside
I'm googling it, but it seems to just say that lactating mastitis is an infection commonly caused by not fully emptying the breast at each feeding, or from a blocked duct. Are you more prone to having blocked ducts? If so why? If the baby doesn't empty the milk each time could the mother not just express it manually? Is it something that you can feel or do you just keep going till nothing flows?
Not trying to one up you. My mother raised two children. Put out a large garden, home canned food, took care of a couple hundred chickens, helped with the milking, baked bread and even worked at a dress factory. Plus cleaned houses for other people.
Could I do all of that? Probably not!
I became unemployed while i finished graduate school. My wife went to work full time and I stayed home with the kids, They were in middle and high school by then and were not really hard to manage. If they were 3 toddlers however I think it would have been a lot more challenging.
Age definitely makes a HUGE difference fs
It certainly isn't as easy as it seems, but we cannot deny the historical truth that men often performed much of the most physically demanding labor. Holding a baby is easier than carrying a heavy load, such as a large ball of lead, for instance. If we had to do even half a day's work that men traditionally did, many of us would likely suffer serious back injuries or experience health issues like infertility XD. Men generally do not become infertile due to physical hardships.
Just accept how God made us. Since a man can have more children than women and are more powerful than us, they are able to undergo through hardships and sacrifices more than us. It has always been like that. It really is not worth it to try to hold a competition (like all feminists do) against men, we just are not overall as capable as men. No matter how much you try to counter this, you will always bash your head against a rock of reality. We are of course also vital for humanity but men are more vital.
"More women have died from childbirth compared to men in war"
Yeah no, I got to leave at that one. This is the most ridiculous false claim I have ever heard. Only 0.2 out of 100 women die from childbirth as of 2020 the last time I've checked through headhunters czu. gov. And this is about worldwide, not just Czech Republic.
Men however die like flies in wars.
And yes, our "push-a-baby" is not comparable to pure destruction that men face. Let me tell you again, all of us women are more willingly to go through pregnancy every chance we get than go to war or any hard-labor our amazing men go through.
And war is not necessarily evil. The true purpose of war is to exterminate evil and to keep the humanity thriving and growing. Sadly, the wars nowadays are just funded by those-who-we-cannot-speak-of. And to keep flourish our civilizations. Each nation needs to be strong and ready to face the odds. And those are men doing it. Not us women. We stay home and take care of children. That is all. And there is nothing to be ashamed of.
Not only we wouldn't be born without men, but we would not even be alive or thrive without men. A nation without men is easily destroyed. Evil is anywhere.
"My husband and all of my male family members have been to war multiple times. I know what I'm talking about as well"
Yup, not buying that one. Or even if it was true, your hubby and sons just giving you a "pat on your back" to make you feel good.
Like a parent who would pat their hand on the back of his child after the child said "look Pa, I just lifted 5 kg's. I bet you cannot do it"
No one is giving me a pat on the back. My father in law spent literal years overseas being deployed after 9/11. When he retired and became a stay at home dad to his youngest he was in shock how difficult it really was. He said being deployed was a vacation in comparison to being a dad. My husband and other family members agree but they've never stayed home with their kids more than a few months so they don't have the same view as my FIL who had done both
To be honest with you. A year ago, I was just like you. I held a huge grudge against men because they are "more excellent" or however you might call it. As if they were primary and we women secondary. I took a nice 8 months off from social media and I swear, this helped me a lot and because of that, I just accepted and the way we women are and how men are. You cannot change biology the way you want it to be. And it is not bad to be considered as a "supporter" for men while men take the "spotlight". It does not make us useless. We are great as well, but once again, men are a level above. Not like they are machines or so absolutely not. They bleed, they die, they get sick like we women do. The only difference is that they are more capable than us overall. They can handle more hardships when it comes to overall as a human being. The only thing we get is pregnancy. But that is because we have the required organs to do so. Not because we are "just as strong as men" because we are not. Once again, when it comes to mental and physical struggle overall, men handle it more. That is why in nuclear family, it is the man who tanks all the things to keep his family safe and sound.
Please stop your jealousy against men. You will end up like me struggling with panic attacks because of this obsession.
"Soldiers barely die anymore."
Pure ignorance. You are just extremely deluded. Like extremely. And if women truly died more during childbirth than men in wars, we already would have around 1/100 ratio in men/women. When I go outside there is like 1/2 in men/women ratio. Seems like men sacrifice more.
Did you go outside once in your lifetime? What you see in front of your screen is not the real perspective of this world you know.
There's less men because they are more likely to die because of their weak DNA. Even in utero they are more likely to die than girls because of that. And yes I do go outside and I know this information because of having so many sons I'm extremely aware of how they are more at risk just naturally. Not because of anything besides their DNA
"Have you ever witnessed a man getting a cold"
Yes.
"They litterally act like they're dying lol they are not high functioning like women are"
That is what feminists love to spread to each other in their circle jerk so that they could feel as "tough" as men. (it is because they hate being weaker than men)
But no, when men have cold, they stand up, do anything what they can. Like we women do. Unless it is extremely high temperature. You need to go outside instead of listening to feminists/manhaters or to media controlled by big ones with only purpose is to create sensationalism to make the "lesser" gender aka women feel better about themselves. No man "dies" from cold. Stop lying.
"And this is not from social media but what I've seen irl. Women are not secondary at all even our DNA is stronger. Mens Y chromosome is weak and slowly dying off because men are a mutation of women lol"
Funny how that "weak chromosome" or whatever the feminist media is trying to pull off is what makes men more powerful, stronger, and just more capable than us in every day life. It is kind of ironic to be honest.
There are less men because more men die from fatal injuries than women. Be it in workplace, war or whatever it might be. Or even chemicals created by big pharma (even the tap water can be dangerous for the DNA) that negatively impacts testosterone. Not because of "weak DNA" or whatever you bought from feminist news anchors. The whole media is now just tailored towards sensationalism in order to make profit. They know (by use of Big Data extracted from our smartphones, Google Trends, etc.) that modern women struggle being lower than men because of biology. That is why they publish these "news articles" to make us women feel good and "as great as men". But at the end this is just a bait for them to make more money. Every click counts. And guess what who controls the media? (Evil) old men.
I think you are in damage control after you read my long reply to you. No way I told you that we are useless compared to men. I just want to correct you that, even though being a stay-at-home is challenging, it is just not comparable to what men have done for human race throughout history. We went along with our instinct and how we are built. Men are more powerful hence why it just makes sense for men to do a more demanding labor than us women. We women also thrive to do the best we can (decent women that is), but considering that it is men that rules over his wife and children, the wife pleases her husband and obeys him to make his day happy. A happy man will go through anything to ensure the growth and safety of his family. Yet, women these days are trained to show their grudge against men. The whole fiasco you see in front of your screen is just braintraining to lead you to a way they want you to be.
there's no way a man could compete with a woman as far as caring for children and a home goes - Stay at home Moms single Moms they have the hardest work and the most responsibility and deserve to be respected - it's why 95 % of the time Moms get custody
"there's no way a man could compete with a woman as far as caring for children and a home goes"
It is like saying
"there's no way an adult could compete with a child as far as physical related labor"
Pure irony. Or are you saying this just to soothe her feelings? Or are you an AI bot?
Cause it is
Okay I'm just playing don't roast me 😂
I was gonna say I was joking after you responded but it would be too late, you'd drop a bomb on me
Well it does NOT appear as though you need to work to hard at being a ā Hot Baddie ā. ( seems to come naturally and Iām certain it would take far more effort to not look that way) and taking care of kids is easy when youāre invested and they touch your heart whether man or female, Mom or Dad!!
People that never lived your lifestyle would say it´s easy. That´s true if you save time quality on cleaning and preparing food it´s easy for sure. Being at home is more than a full job as there is no break.
Oh apple, if men could become pregnant we'd deal with it. Men couldn't do the job of a mom because they are dad's. Moms are great, mine was. I figure you do a fair job. 7 kids right?
They're just pushing back on the women who complain so much about being a SAHM or maybe it's the feminist who trash SAHMs.. It's hard work, but a lot of women really enjoy it and would rather do that than go to work.. Back in the day women were praised for being good mothers and raising good kids..
I used to have a job but I became a stay at home milf when my husband got a promotion and started making a lot more money. I loved it and it is definitely not an easy task, but even now after my son is grown I babysit other kids to get that same feeling.
It is not at all.
To me it is incredibly difficult.
I consider it a strenuous task and it requires a lot of effort and trust.
Men are stronger and faster. We get shit done faster than women so yes. Everything women do, men do it better.
It all stems to biology really. The stronger, faster, more intelligent being who is not handicapped by monthly periods and pregnancy and menopause do things better than the other. Why do you think men worked the harshest labor that no woman can ever achieve? Simple: biology.
I wouldn't know, no one I've ever associated with has said anything like that lol
That's not great. . . maybe some people gotta go lol
Also I just don't get the point of comparing parenting to a job or career. It's just totally different. It's harder in some ways, easier in others, more rewarding in some ways, and less rewarding in others.
Like yeah, being a parent will cost you hundreds of thousands, not make you hundreds of thousands. That doesn't make it any less valuable lol
It depends. The stay at home moms who send their kids to daycare or have nannies ruin it for the rest of the stay at home moms.
Yeah i use to sell breastmilk to this woman who said she was a stay at home mom but then sent her kid to daycare from 6am to 6pm. Her husband was rich tho so she did typical rich mom shit like yoga classes and getting her nails done. She kept trying to invent me places I was like no I acutally watch my kids all day š
Yeah, same here, Iāve seen them. They complain when their kids get sick because they actually have to take care of them. š
I thought it was easy. Then I saw my sister with my nephews and changed my mind.
It is one of the most demanding roles anyone can do.
Because they haven't gone through the experience or they saw examples of bad sahm that made it look easy because they neglected their kids. I have had tough labor jobs and am currently a sahd. The labor jobs are definitely harder but I wouldn't say being a sahd is easy either. It's more mentally and emotionally wearing than a physical job in many ways. I would consider being a stay home parent easy if all of your kids are school age and go to school.
I was a SAHDNWWLTF. I got so much unearned credit! I plaited my daughter's hair before a gymnastics competition and looked up to see so many open mouths!
There is a lot of good dads out there but mums always know best
I donāt. Young kids can easily drive any person crazy if theyāre at home all day with you
Iād only consider it āeasyā if the kids were away at school for most of the day
I mean for me packing lunches is pretty easy (I do it every day for work). Also, they could take the bus as well to solve the drop off problem.
As for grades, the school system is an absolute joke nowadays and they never, ever fail kids these days. They just pass them all along until graduation.
Speaking for myself personally I learned probably 10x more from just googling and reading about random shit on the internet than I actually did being in school.
Maybe a private school wouldāve been different, but in public school I was literally just slumping over half asleep in my chair all day long not even listening 80% of the time.
Also, school lunches are now free in my state (at the taxpayerās expense) but even if that werenāt the case I wouldnāt mind paying for a couple school lunches everyday
Well that sounds like something your school district needs to fix then. Iām surprised there arenāt a whole bunch of parents complaining about that already.
Sounds like a BS excuse to me.
If the weatherās an issue than the buses should just leave earlier to get it done
"The most difficult job on the planet"
@Apple1996
You're right... but only because I'm not a mother or a woman. Haha.
Ignorance. People are often locked into their own personal slices of reality
Man i have no idea. Its a hard freaking job! much respect for those that do it. Thats going to be my wife soon. We are also home schooling.
My ex used to say this lol but couldnāt walk my dog and our baby together without stressing out lmao
I think where it messes people up is when they say itās the hardest job in the world. I give SAHMs a ton of credit. Itās definitely not an easy jobā¦. But itās 100% not the hardest job in the world.
@Apple1996 I completely agree itās not an easy job. I personally would not be up for it. I get it. Do I think itās a tough as commercial crabbing? Not even close. Ice road Trucking? Nope. Any type of soldier in an active war? I just donāt think so.
Like I said, itās not an easy job. I do understand. I just donāt think it deserves the title of āhardest jobā.
Thatās absolutely true. Breaks and time off isnāt what makes a job hard. What you do for a job makes it hard. Again, I agree that SAHM is not easy. Itās no cake walk. I get it. But to imply that being a mom is harder than being a soldier fight in a war over seas doesnāt register in my brain. Being a soldier isnāt easy because you get to go home a couple times a year. Commercial crabbing isnāt easier because you can have a smoke in between lines of pots in the Bering sea.
Please understand that I am not saying being a mom is easy. Thatās not the point I am trying to make. I know itās hard on people. I know it sucks pretty bad sometimes. It would just be impossible for me to give it the crown for āworlds toughest jobā
Lol, that is funny. I think they tested it and it's like 90 hours a week. SAHMs are amazing
To be honest wifey in this days men's are new bitches wtf I can't even stay 5-6 hour day at home. Now we should get married to each other 🤣
A stay at home mom or MILF as you say is not an easy job, managing the house along with kids and your partner all day is tough.
It doesn't look easy. It makes me want to pull my hair out. I saw it with my mom, my sister, and me.
It's a different kind of difficult. Imagine being on a factory processing floor for 8 hours. Or a school teacher looking after 30 kids that were not your own.
Kids need there mum or dad around, it's not a burden, just keep up the good work.
I see where you are going. I think you want to prove that women are as "strong" as men so you try to come up with any excuse that women go through yet, reality shows otherwise, or you are just exaggerating. And I do not believe that you are a mother. As a girl I know that most girls and even women try to establish many faces with different "personalities".
Whatever makes you sleep better at night Miss @Apple1996. Keep exaggerating with your "moms work 24 hours". Every woman would die if they kept working 24 hours without sleep constantly. Even men would die and it does not matter how stronger and more powerful they are than us, every human being will die from it.
You are delusional. It seems I am younger and still I use common sense more than you.
If moms are built for it, then why don't women protect, provide, feed their husband and children? And perhaps their second husband and his children? Because last time I checked, a man does these things, not women.
Why don't women - instead of just gestating infants from our vagina's, participate in wars like men do in front lines and frontiers and end up missing legs and liver without sleeping?
Please tell me.
Once again, like mentioned, NO ONE can works constantly for 24 hours and not die. So I suggest you stop lying.
Respect and appreciate men around you. They are above us. God has decided it. Just like humans are above animals. And God is above all.
@JessyJoy women do protect and provide for their childern. Most men are selfish and only care about themselves and other men. We live in a patriarchy lol
And women if pregnant or caring for kids have no option other than to work 24/7 š
Again wars are not anything to be proud of. And my husband and many of my family members been to war including some women. They said it was fun and wish they could do it all the time instead of work. My husband constantly talks about the nap time he got while overseas š
Hilarious.
Don't worry, Apple! I appreciate you! SAHM are my type!
Because while it may seem hard, you're not out in the freezing cold, fixing frozen pipes. REAL WORK
Yeah and it was -9 here the other day, but the point is. You're not doing actual work, in freezing temps, you're likely going straight into another car
Right and what are you doing in -4 weather, as a "house mom"
my only concern is as long as one of you is bringing in enough money to support this. as long as that is good then i don't mind.
oh i definitely get that but depending on where you live like in my city even that isn't enough for a lot of people unfortunately. both parents usually still have to work.
yes kids are expensive hence the reason why a lot are opting out in our era. no its not a conspiracy by nonwhite people like some nazi's on here would have you believe lol. people just are choosing not to have kids as much these days.
Depends on the level of milf.
There is a kids to milf ratio that is in play here so we need to know the details
Stop your whining. You signed up for it, do it. Many men work 100 times harder than you, and you know it.
I don't know any man who works harder than me besides maybe some stay at home dad's but even then most of them have a wife handling the mental load so not the same
And no I did not sign up for this lol there was litterally no other choice for me
Stay at home dads are the only men who possibly work harder? Thatās hilarious š¤£
Obviously they don't have the pregnancies and breastfeeding so for them slightly easier than if a mother is doing it
Also if someone has a acutal job that is difficult that is something they LITTERALLY signed up for lol they have no room to complain when they signed up for it and are getting paid for it
Thereās always a choice in having kids. No one forced you into motherhood
There's really not. Working you have the choice not to as well
Not really, maybe for women. thatās not an option for men
Because of old stereotypes.
A SAHM is a tough job!
I guess because they don't have to deal with workplace politics.
Agree with you 100%
Itās a tough job
Nah, it's not easy. I respect such women.
Blessed are the SAHM.
Excuse my ignorance but what is āMILFā ?
I have all the respect for stay at home moms
I just donāt know what MILF is?
@Booboolove69
Its an acronym for
āMan, I love Felinesā
People love their cats,
Oh ā¦ nice š¦
Same reason why SAHM women think working is easy
Lol, because it is easy.
I could do it with a hangover.
Looks like you couldnāt hang with me.
Right. Cleaning up legos.
Wow you thought of everything.
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