I caught my fiancé sending nudes to someone she works with, how would I really know if thats all she's done?

[Anonymous]

This happened 2 months ago now, and i found out she sent these nudes to someone she worked with, and apparently she hasn't done it before. the messed up thing was she was sending me them at the same time as sending them to him. This guy is someone i dont like she knows i don't like him. she didn't tell me they worked together until i found out myself from a insta post from the company, this was about 8 months after she started at this job. she also should of had this guy blocked from 2019 and i found out she unblocked him way before they worked together in 2023. i then find these nudes on her snap which she forgot to delete. all this above makes me think more has happened or this has been going on for a while. We have 2 kids, a House together everything is provided for by me. but im still really confused. the relationship has been better since we've started working through all this. she's since deleted snap, changed her number and left her job. but i still have that gut feeling. we have been close to ending it but i honestly love her so much. how can i trust her word nothing else has happened. she's said sorry and cried a lot, admits she's fucked everything up. what do you think?🤦🏻‍♂️

[Anonymous]

If it wasn’t for the kids I’d ask why you still w her. She’s only sorry because she got caught. If you didn’t catch her she would have co ti used to do it. Part of me thinks she’s only sorry too because she knows you’re her golden chicken. You take care of everything for her financially. I’d really consider marrying her. If you were to leave you’re going to have a big battle to fight in regards to your two kids. If you’re married to her it’s going to be even bigger. I don’t know about you but I couldn’t trust my girl again if she did something like that. It’s always going to be on your mind. When she doesn’t answer your messages right away or answer your calls your mind is going to start wondering. You may not want to commit to her in that way.

[Drumlin2001]

Very suspect. Put off any wedding plans.
She has definitely been messaging him for a while, you don't just start sending nudes. Whether anything else has happened, whi knows. But the fact she was chatting to someone she knows you don't like and willing to send nudes, doesn't bode well. Granted, kids make it difficult. But she strayed once, she'll do it again. Don't envy your position

[Anonymous]

If she sending nudes then she cheating or intending to cheat. She will tell you she isn't going to see but will do it anyway regardless, she's buying time to slot the new guy in.

Time to make your getaway.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

I'd say do some couple consoling and figure out if you actually want to keep having to look over your shoulder or if you can trust her ans move on from this

[Abbycado]

Why is she still your fiancé?

[Anonymous]

Are you sure she is your fiancé?

[jahaims]

She cheats on you dumbass. Move on

[RageBabe]

Confront her.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Dump her.

[Anonymous]

Red flags