I had this former friend in the past. We used to work together and have a lot of history. She would stay a couple of hours after her shift just to talk to me and has been to my house a few times. There’s always been weird tension which another one of our mutual friends would notice. We would casually flirt. I threw a party and got really drunk and her and I ended up making out four times that night. She got a boyfriend a few months after. We’re both bisexual. She eventually quit our job because she hated it and went to a new job ( same kind of job ) so hadn’t talked for months but I congratulated her when she got engaged to her boyfriend and she reached out when my dog died.
When we worked together and we’re close, I graduated college and she was so happy for me and came to my party ( that’s where we made out lol ). I ended up getting my dream job a few months ago and announced it on social media. I got crickets from her lol. She didn’t reach out or anything. it hurt too because people at our job ( the one she left ) were asking me how she felt about me moving and getting my dream job.
it hurt too because I congratulated her on her engagement but she couldn’t do the same for my big news. Anyways, I’ve been crafting my new life and my new job is really a big opportunity and I moved to a different state for it and have been making new friends and posting them. She’s always the first one to watch my stories and I find it a bit odd because I no longer watch hers. She watches them really quickly every single time and it’s weird. Is she still secretly jealous of my new life? If she doesn’t care, why does she do this?
When we worked together and we’re close, I graduated college and she was so happy for me and came to my party ( that’s where we made out lol ). I ended up getting my dream job a few months ago and announced it on social media. I got crickets from her lol. She didn’t reach out or anything. it hurt too because people at our job ( the one she left ) were asking me how she felt about me moving and getting my dream job.
it hurt too because I congratulated her on her engagement but she couldn’t do the same for my big news. Anyways, I’ve been crafting my new life and my new job is really a big opportunity and I moved to a different state for it and have been making new friends and posting them. She’s always the first one to watch my stories and I find it a bit odd because I no longer watch hers. She watches them really quickly every single time and it’s weird. Is she still secretly jealous of my new life? If she doesn’t care, why does she do this?
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On Snapchat I have a friend I’ve known 10+ years, we were almost like sisters until I got in a relationship 3 years ago. Since then we have not talked, and I don’t watch her snaps yet she is always one of the first to watch mine. Doesn’t matter what time of day and this has been 3 years mind you. Sure I could say she’s jealous of my relationship but in all honesty I think our old friends are just curious along with being chronically online like so many people. In most cases when you aren’t working or doing something else your phone is glued to your palm. That’s just where we are with technology and time.
She just wants to keep tabs on you but isn’t really interested in reaching out or reconnecting. I’m not sure why.
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