Why does my ex still has me in his contact and still views my status?

[Anonymous]

So my ex boyfriend broke up with me out of the blue about a week ago but he still has me in his contacts and if i post he watches it. What does this suggest? Is that normal if someone is over you?

[Oliverlogan263]

From my experience, breakups can be messy and complicated, even if one person is the one who wanted it to end. A few things could be going on here:

- He may not be as fully "over you" as he thinks. Sometimes people break up but still have lingering feelings and want to stay sort of connected on social media. It's a way to keep tabs on your life even after the split.

- He could be feeling unsure about the breakup and keeping you as a contact leaves that door slightly open in case he changes his mind. I've had buddies do this before.

- Simple habit. You were together a long time, so your profile might just be part of his regular social media scroll without much thought. Breaking routines takes time.

- Curiosity. He wants to see what you're up to and who you're talking to now that you're not together. A little possessive or jealous streak lingering.

Honestly, I wouldn't read too much into it or get your hopes up. If he broke up with you then he meant that part, even if he's not fully detached yet. Just focus on moving on yourself and don't sweat what he's doing on social media still. Chances are it doesn't mean he wants to get back together deep down. Time to live your best single life!

[Anonymous]

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[Bella2423]

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