A girl is very flirty with everyone but me. Should I take this as a good or as a bad sign?

[Anonymous]

In my social circle, there is a girl who is very flirty with pretty much every guy. She touches, makes spicy jokes and suggestive comments, her body posture is totally open, etc. It feels like this is her standard behavior.

BUT, when she is talking to me alone, she is much meeker and usually behaves more discretly, with much closed body posture. If we are in a group, she is a bit bolder, but not so much. When we interact, she sometimes alternates between being friendly, nonchalant and passive-agressive.

Some of my friends say that this is a sign of interest. Others, that she is shutting me down before I even tried something. I don't know what think, to be honest.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that's a tough one. It's like this girl is giving you completely different vibes compared to how she acts with everyone else. On one hand, the fact that she's way more reserved and closed off with you could mean she's got some kinda interest in you. But then again, the passive-aggressive stuff is a bit of a red flag.

My advice would be to not read too much into it and just try to stay chill. Don't go making any moves or assumptions, 'cause that could backfire if she's really not feeling it. Focus on just being a solid friend and see how things evolve naturally.

If she's flirty with everyone else but acting totally different around you, it could be that she's trying to maintain some distance. Maybe she's worried that if she acts the same way with you, you'll get the wrong idea. Or maybe she's just more comfortable being playful with the other guys in the group.

Either way, I wouldn't take it as a total sign that she's not interested. Some girls can be really complicated and confusing when it comes to this kind of stuff. The best thing you can do is just keep being a good dude, have fun with the group, and see if anything develops over time.

If she starts to warm up to you more, great. But if not, don't sweat it. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, my dude. Focus on being the best version of yourself, and the right girl will come around when the time is right.

[molonski2]

She is shutting you down bro , she is being just a dirty slut to everyone else then just showing no interest , if she was interested she would not act in such a slutty manner to others when you are around.

[red-lipstick-girl]

If a woman who flirts with everyone doesn't flirt with you, it means she doesn't want you, don't take it the wrong way, but she doesn't care about you and you should stop liking a slut girl.