Do you think men would like to control the past, present and future of their wives if they could?

[Babygirl_S]

Maybe he’s paranoid about something so he keeps on checking your locations and actions throughout the different periods. It could be anything like “she wants to steal my money” “I don’t think she’s a virgin” or like “I don’t think she’s that innocent or interested in me”

I am certain they would do that because you can’t trust anyone in today’s world. You can’t simply ask and expect an honest response. Many would do it for inner peace and satisfaction even if they’re not paranoid.

[glennos89]

I cannot speak for other guys about this subject but I would never try to control the past or future. If a woman isn't honest with me, her behaviour will let me know sooner or later do I dont see the point in controlling everything that happens and has happened honestly.

And also I disagree about the fact that you cannot thrust anyone anymore these days. That's a mindset that you believe in because of all the negativity you see on the internet but that's not reality though

[NathanDavis]

not me...

I want a woman by my side... a whole woman on her own too

I'm not bothered by insecurities like that, I am a man, after all, a real one too

[alice55]

I think only a minority would actually do it

[MrChinaski]

It sounds like an abusive, controlling and potentially dangerous relationship to me. My advice would be to run, not walk. But they talk through an exit strategy first, with a counsellor or trusted friend. Leaving an abusive relationship is often the most dangerous time. She will need somewhere safe to stay for at least the first couple of weeks where he can't find her. She should change the SIM on her phone. etc, etc. Making a safe escape requires planning.

[Fireguy17]

hell no, I barely have enough time to do the things I have to do, much less try to run her life.
That is why I am with someone who is independent and can make decisions on her own.

[NicholasRedone]

Some religions are this precise lol 😂 about cleanliness 🫧 🧼

However lady : you do you.

[NicholasRedone]

@babygirl_s bear in mind lady lol bear ; you're pushing 28 so, why not just enjoy that you're a happy soul instead of being 45 and full of insecurities - be happy lady ♀️😁 whatever you decide whether to stay a virgin or date some lucky man if you'd call him lucky, be happy and of good cheer 🍻

[nawtee_me]

Not me! I think it would be a waste of time trying to control anyone’s daily affairs. If a person feels that they have to do that to their wife then she married the wrong guy.

[MarkPayne]

I would think it depends from man to man whether they are a control freak or not. You get all different types, some love a strong independent lady others may be controlling. However, no-one can control the past. What's done is done.

[MarkPayne]

Or maybe they could by manipulation, but my point is not all men are in the same category. We negatives and positives.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

no, I dont have a god complex. therefore I never wish to have the power to control anyone.

[CubaPirate]

This one definitely wouldn't I'm not a control freak and I'm not insecure either.

[KateCrombie]

Thank god my man is not like that

[Ariesman81]

Yeah. It's called being a leader.

[NicholasRedone]

@ariesman81 it's the one good dominant quality about a woman who's otherwise submissive ; because if her man won't do it, a woman should speak up and say her mind. Aka if condoms aren't on, it's not happening. And if he won't get tested, there the door is 🚪

[IslaTheWitch]

nope

[Bklynbadboy12]

I don't think it's would I know i would!!!😉

[chocolatetwopointo]

they already do