Ladies, does it offend you if your son engages with a woman who is postwall?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

I'm already pushing 40 and I can't believe how so many women within my age bracket are already post the wall.

still in a few more years women in their 20s are gonna be young enough to be my daughters and I can't see myself being with a woman who is young enough to be my daughter but I can already hear my mom and the rest of my family members ridiculing me for having such "low standards" and wasting my time with an "old lady."

I already seen this happening with my other male relatives

Yes, for whatever reason

No

Dont Care

A total of 9 votes were cast: 5 girls and 4 guys. See detailed results

[alice55]

Any mother would happier if her son went to a woman his age than a young one, because if he go to a young one she'll be worried she's here for the money (don't even matter if you have none theyre worried for it) XD

[NordicInScandinavia]

I'd seriously question where I went wrong if I raised a son to become like you tbh.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

If a son thinking for himself and engaging with women on his own terms is what you'd consider a failure, then that says more about your parenting style than it does about me. A good parent raises a man, not a servant to social expectations or guilt

[NordicInScandinavia]

Whatever you say dude. I'm actually embarrassed on your half right now.

[NordicInScandinavia]

Good parents don't raise "men" like you.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

You keep trying to shame me instead of answering the actual question. That says everything I need to know about where your priorities lie. Thanks for confirming my point

[NordicInScandinavia]

It's been answered by @Apple1996.

Can't shame someone that isn't ashamed of themselves.

Not our fault you're surrounded by "washed up' people, that your mother "hit the wall" and would hate for you to make the same mistakes as your father. Have a good day now.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

how nice, so you are admitting that you are only here to troll and show the world how bitter and triggered you are?

[NordicInScandinavia]

I did answer. You just didn't like it.

I'm neither bitter nor triggered (unlike you it seems). I'm also not closing on my 40s, all alone wondering what my mother would think about my choices. (Unlike you).

You should stop projecting on me

[Filthy_Immigrant]

Ah, so now you're rewriting the conversation and calling it a 'response'? You gave someone else credit for answering, then spent the rest of the time talking about my age, my parents, and imaginary scenarios. This isn’t projection—it’s just clarity. But by all means, keep spinning if it helps you cope

[molonski2]

I have no problem going out and being with women who are the age of my daughters.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

man I hope you have the patience

[Lena7637]

Yes I hope as well

[molonski2]

Patience with what?

[molonski2]

I dont need any patience.

[Lena7637]

Of going out with age of your daughter

[Lena7637]

Ok are you single

[molonski2]

@Lena7637
No..
But my girlfriend now is 9 years older than my eldest , previously this was not the case.
Not that its anyone else's business frankly.

[Lena7637]

Ok you guy are planning for marriage

[molonski2]

Why bother at my age? I dont see too much point in it..
I prefer this age bracket and I prefer non reliance on myself , which is certainly the case.
But , I'm not anti marriage , but not sure I'd do it if I were 28 again , as I did previously.

But , this time around if its something really wanted , then I think I'm old enough and stable enough to consider. But my answer to the question was supposed to be a general statement.

Thanks.

[Dongie]

Tom Cruise got going on!

[Filthy_Immigrant]

while Kelly McGillis looks like she swallowed a hippo and Nicole Kidman look like she got too much chemotherapy

[Dongie]

I know. McGillis has looked terrible since the 90s. Kidman used to be hot.

[Dongie]

Tom is a few months older than me.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

in that case George Clooney is even older than you. I wish I knew what his secret recipe is

[Dongie]

Yep. Tom was born in 62. Like May, I think. I'm August. He still runs like the wind blows and does those stunts. Amazing! More power to him.

[Dongie]

I just checked. July 3rd. Heh, he did the movie 'Born on the Fourth of July'.

[Apple1996]

That wouldn't bother me at all because I don't believe in a wall

[Filthy_Immigrant]

its goof that you are not narcissistic towards your children but defying biology and reality is not right

[Apple1996]

It has nothing to do with biology. Men just like to shame women for aging

[Apple1996]

Anything that men don't have a preference for that's allowed by society is shamed. Single moms, plus sized women, body hair, aging. I'm sure there some others but I'm forgetting. It's just a bunch of bs to bully women

[Filthy_Immigrant]

its not our fault that most of you age like grapes. and the majority of you dont even try to change it at least

[Apple1996]

Women age amazing in comparison to men. Many of y'all go fat, grey, bald. Looking 50 at 25. Most women keep up with their appearance and just naturally look better with age

[Filthy_Immigrant]

yeah ok, perhaps in a parallel universe.

[Apple1996]

Go outside and look around. Most men in general are looking like shit. Women are at least nice and date for personality instead of looks

[Filthy_Immigrant]

yeah and then Big Foot showed up

[Apple1996]

Lol hey If you are into older mens looks then go date them i won't shame you

[Filthy_Immigrant]

dont be mad that I will be one myself in a few years, making women younger than you drool while I play with their hearts

[Apple1996]

In a few years? Your already old grandpa

[shortster]

If you have children why didn't you marry their mother?

[Lena7637]

Lol 🥲