Why does every guy assume all women want money from them? Especially when you never asked or mentioned money?

[Anonymous]

[SteveSmith1985]

I know that all guys don't think this. Not even most guys. This is based on some particular situation (s) with particular guys in your life. This is not something that is anywhere close to universal or even common among men.

I don't even think its common among men with money. It means that they doubt that you want to be with them for genuine reasons. They think you're looking for money, almost certainly because of some past experience in THEIR own life.

But this is not a thing. This should not happen to anybody regularly (or even periodically).

I'm sorry about however this went down in your life. I do not know why that guy thought that about you. But I do know that most guys are not worried about this, if the girl seems to actually like him. It is only if he doubts that to be true, that this thought could ever enter into a guys head. Now that might not be because of you. It could be because of some past experience that has him overly suspicious.

The point is, that this isn't something you're going to have to deal with as a part of dating men.

[Anonymous]

We don’t. Every man you date probably assumes that. So that tells me maybe it’s you since you seem to be the one constant in this equation. Something about you gives them that impression. Seems to be the same reason you attract those same type of men.

[Asker]

These aren’t guys I dated

[Opinion Owner]

Ok so then how do you come up w the assumption that all men think this?

[Asker]

It’s literally my guy friends who say that and other guys Im irl

[Asker]

Not Im *in autocorrect

[Asker]

I hear men complaining that women only want them for money and to be a certain height

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sure a lot of women are like that. But too I think a lot of those men are watching social media that just pushes that narrative. I think as a man he can tell when certain girls are just after money.

[Asker]

Some guys told me only girl talk to them for money or because they’re really tall

[Opinion Owner]

Yes that is true. Just like a lot of men talk to women because they’re cute w a nice ass and perfect tits.

[Asker]

Yeah

[itsannalee]

A man who think everyone wants their money actually they are the one who insecure about financial.


A woman who thinks that all men just want a pussy actually because only that they have to offer.

[Anonymous]

That depends. Do you really want an answer or are you just looking for someone to tell you what you already believe?

I mean asking this question, and asking it this way is like asking, "why does every woman assume that a guy just wants to sleep with her when he's never said one word about sleeping with her"?

[Asker]

Really depends on the type of woman

[Asker]

Im looking for answers because every guy accuse me of wanting money when I never asked or mentioned it

[Opinion Owner]

It really depends on the guy as well. Despite your ASSERTION, not every guy thinks that. But generally speaking due to gender roles expectations. Almost every guy knows it's kind of EXPECTED for him to carry AT LEAST a disproportionate amount of the financial burden in a relationship. And that usually begins in the courtship. This is why a guy SHOULD take his time and get to understand what he's getting into. The REALITY is not all women are created equal either. The MAJORITY of the women I've dated have ALWAYS at least OFFERED to pay thier fair share on dates. I think that's a testament to the quality of women I've chosen to date.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, your gender is kind of f***ed up. When I started dating the internet was in it's infancy. We didn't have a throng of people on the internet telling us a whole bunch of hyperbolic bull💩 about the opposite gender poisoning our view of dating.
If you know you're not a gold digger than don't worry about it. The problem is the guys you're choosing.

[Opinion Owner]

Generation I meant, not gender. Sorry.

[Asker]

Yes Im not a gold digger do you know you have sad it is be accuse of that?

[Asker]

Yeah the generation is basic off of sin and sex nothing special

[Asker]

Actually it’s not guys Im choosing it’s just literally guys saying that bs

[Opinion Owner]

Well if that's what you want to hear that's what you're going to hear.

[Asker]

I don’t want to speak that

[Asker]

Not speak * hear typo

[Opinion Owner]

Then tune it out. The FACT is not every guy says this. Yes, a lot of guys say this. And it's really not surprising why. Just like I could say all women say all guys cheat. But all women don't say that. Just a lot of them. And it's not because all guys cheat. It's because a lot of women CHOOSE guys who cheat. Translation? You CHOOSE to keep hearing these guys. I've never cheated on a woman in my life. Now I could CHOOSE to take this personal, but I don't. Why? Because I know these women are speaking of thier own ignorant experience, not about me.
Understand?

[Asker]

Yes but I don’t choose them and I never dated them or had sex with them

[Opinion Owner]

You choose to engage them do you not? I mean you're not walking away and them shouting "golddigger" randomly. So in that sense you chose to engage them.

[Kaneki05]

I don't. It's for sure not all maybe not even most. But there is a lot who do.

So I don't assume but will happily call it out when a woman is making clear thats what she cares about.

[nicfire171]

I never felt like this with any women. Honestly I’m not rich so if women want money I’m not the right guy

[oldpigg]

It is necessary to protect the money.

[Fireguy17]

probably past experiences.

[chocolatetwopointo]

bc thats all they think about

[jahaims]

They don't