The reason why men primarily complain about women wanting men for money is because the money a man makes translates into hours, blood, and sweat. Hence if a man makes $20/hr and he takes he and his woman out to a dinner that lasts one hour, that means he lost 5 hours of labor for one hour of presumably pleasure. But if he doesn't have a good time and instead that one hour he spent with his woman costs far more than the $100 because. . . . well how does one calculate a bad experience in dollars? It's difficult to do. Unless he ends up with PTSD and now has to go to a therapist, which in this case he can now factor in the cost of the shrink.
However, sex on the other is a physical activity that benefits both men and women. And is a necessary and common activity that men and women engage in. It's on par with eating and going to the bathroom. One can look at the economic cost of birth control, but honestly, birth control these days is so cheap that it does not compare to the hours a man works. In my next of the woods, a woman can get a month of BC for $5-$10. And in my case where it's common for me and a woman to have sex 1-2 hours/day, that equates to $0.083-$0.167 per hour for $10/month of BC. The financial cost of having sex is much lower than going out to dinner or supporting a woman.
Now moving away from this example, another reason men complain about women wanting men's money is because here in the states many women are massively irresponsible in handling money. Everything from overpaying for a college degree, burying themselves in credit card debt, living beyond their means, buying expensive cars, etc., etc. etc. And culturally what do American women do when they run out of money? They commonly go to their fathers, boyfriends, husbands, and in worse cases they resort to the government for their bailout (aka welfare). As a cultural contrast, an ex-gf from China, she put money aside to buy an expensive ornate Chinese rug when she was here in the states. How often do you see American women putting money aside to buy something they want? Also, she hated it when I would use my credit card. She couldn't calculate interest rates or the total bill, but in her mind using credit meant that I had to work more to pay for the extra fees, which meant, in her mind, I could very well spend less time with her.
So in the end, this is in nutshell is why men complain about women wanting a man's money.
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Because wanting someone for sex vs someone for money IS NOT THE SAME THING.
At least it’s biologically natural to want to have sex with someone. As picky as woman are THEY TOO have that occasional impulse/) fantasy. There are guys (usually famous ones) they would love just to have sex with and nothing else if given the opportunity.
Using someone for money is a completely different story. It shows you are selfish, lazy and worthless piece of sh*t because you don’t have the self respect to make it on your own.
nNow if you live in a 3rd world country were female oppression is a real thing (Middle East) than that’s a different story. You need a man to survive. But if you are female and live in a 1st world country were women are not only given equal rights but plenty of additional one sided benefits than you have zero excuses.
It’s not fair to compare these two.
At least sex is supposed to be a mutually enjoyable experience (maybe more so for one person than the other). But when it comes to spending money on someone that is completely ONE SIDED.
It's 2020 my biggest concern is in a country that you can have whatever you want as long as you are creative enough to figure it out. Why is everyone still playing games? As an adult you should say hey this is what I'm looking for yes or no? Cause believe me there are people out there for anytang you want. Wether it comes with a price , a deal , a negotiation , etc. So you just wanna fuck and chill when nobody else is available say it. If your wanting to be serious and get tied down say it. If you need a place to live and for your po to check on you just say it. Everybody is fucking everybody. Stay woke. The day they aloud nudity on public television is the day all hell broke loose. So say what you mean alow the other person or persons decide if they want that. All respect is kept and we are all happy. Now here is the good news. If you can't find person x to full fill what you want there is always robots. Boom problem solved. Now are we all going to bitch less and be happier? Ha I think we all thrive on drama and attention. Whoever comments on my shit do not call me a cunt that is a very disgusting word. Yw 😂♋👠🆓💃💕😘
I totally quit dating for a while because every guy I went out with for a while had lied to me about his intentions. Once we had sex, he would ghost me. I didn’t meet a truly good guy until my current boyfriend.
I’m sure gold diggers lie and pretend to like a guy just to get his money. People who lie to get someone’s resources are the lowest scum on the earth. Unfortunately, there are millions of these types of manipulators who ruin dating for the rest of us.
All you can do is get good at figuring out which people are lying and who is genuine.
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Most people will hate you for telling them they are wrong even if the know they are wrong just because they can’t view themselves in any kind of negative light
I can totally see why both sides do that. Life is all about maximizing resources.
Do you think that all men only want women for sex?
I dont agree with both statements
Its not complicated actually.
Here is what you need to do if you want to understand:
From now on, every time you ever hear a woman list wealth or status in anyway what so ever as being a requirement for them dating a man make a mental note.
And every time you hear a man say that some sort of physical characteristic like big boobs or whatever is comparable to the money thing as being a requirement for dating you make a mental note of that.
I will bet you my kidneys that the female tally will outstrip the male tally by a fucking landslide and that is before you consider the other fucking obvious reason, that women want sex too.
Where the fuck do you get off defining a human being in terms of how much stuff they can give you as a personal quality?
Pretty much every woman out there does this with a straight face and then you have the gall to post a question like this?
Its actually disgusting how sexist you are and its way past time that you started getting called on your bullshit.I don't want a woman just for sex. But I don't care what girl reads my answer and gives me a thumbs down on my comment, sex is an important part of a relationship. Intimacy with your spouse or significant other is not a bad thing. But money is different, we need money to live, we need money to have a roof over our heads, I'm 30 and still haven't had sex so I can survive without it. I mean I love food but that doesn't mean I'm going to eat at a buffet everyday. Girls and women can't just assume all guys/men want sex for the only purpose. Yeah, of course, in today's world, people don't care about others and some or many (depending on their state of mind) won't care getting attached to one person. I can't speak on behalf of everyone else on this site or in life, but girls/women shouldn't assume. Yes, a guy/man who pursues a girl/woman is not looking for a dude friendship. But I look at pursing a girl where do I find her attractive, is she a good person overall, have a decent educational background and has good values... That's it. I don't care if a girl is 5'3 or 5'10, I don't care if a girl is 115 pounds or 135 pounds, if I love and care about her that's what matters most to me. So girls/women out there, understand that, you can't paint all males with one brush.
First of all that is not true, we don't only want sex, we want more then that, you will on other side have hard finding a guy that bothers with relationship and don't want sex. Besides why would you want a guy that doesn't want to have sex with you? It's extremely rare that a woman can't give sex so it's something she can always provide if she wants. So she has it available and can't really run out of it. Money on the other side is a limited resource and something she should be able to provide for herself, supporting kids is one thing but why should she not be an adult and provide herself. If she dates for wealth she is unable to earn enough to satisfy her own greed. It's a bad characteristics. Why shouldn't we reject that.
It is sad, but yes there is people out there that will agree with your trolling question.
I also belive it is a certain maturity level to this. I know that I went through a phase where all I could think about was how many girls could I rack up.
Pains me to look back on that mindset but now as I matured all I want is someone to value me just as much as I value them. To be as dedicated as I am to living life together. I don't care about status' (relationship, marriage, etc). As long as we are both emotionally connection and invested thats all that matters. Still waiting 😔 The important thing I have learned is to not make finding that person the goal but rather to be focused on becoming your best person. So, when they come along you are ready.Only selfish insecure people complain. Every guy isn’t in it just for sex and not every girl is in it for money , the only people that think that way are selfish insecure people. That think grass is greener on the other side. When you meet someone that values love and relationships and removes selfishness then money and sex shouldn’t be an issue , when money and sex become an issue then that’s where it goes wrong. Those are the people that will never know what love truly means cuz they are in it for themselves when you want Something without giving In return that person should never get into a relationship. A relationship should be a team , you are in it together. Actions speaks louder than words.
SEX?
You mean her actual body?
Mating?
The thing every life form on the planet strives to do?
Sex is love for many men.
Sex is not a thing... like pizza.
Joe wants pizza everyday but Jess is fine having it once a month.
It isn't some outside thing... it is wanting you.
If someone wants to have sex with they desire you... your living body and all that makes you up.
Money is an outside thing. We need food, clothing, shelter and air.
We do not need lots of money.
She is wanting some outside object that has nothing to do with him as a purpose.
Being rich isn't a real, life need like mating and reproduction.
Sex and love are tied.
Being wealthy is a corrupt goal.They don't. The only people who believe men are only interested in women for sex are women.
Men are probably even more idealistic and romantic on average that 99% of women when it comes to love. Men want to love, men want to be loved, and men want that love to be unconditional in both directions. Even if that's impossible.
However, that does not mean a man's particular interest in a specific woman can't be purely sexual. Some attractive women just don't have the personality or character to merit a long term romantic involvement.
If the men in your life are only interested in your tits, throat and pussy. Then look to yourself. What about you is discouraging any long term romantic interest?
Are you boring? Too high maintenance? Too fake? Bitchy? Manipulative? Entitled?
Always remember, if you think everyone else is wrong, you're usually the problemBoth are wrong, and both are very prevalent
Relationships, are about having someone who cares, trusts, and loves you. But all those things are the means. The End of the relationship needs to be Family. Marrying a woman and giving her kids.
Men complain because they can't get the woman they want with the money they make. Its just lust begetting anger.
Women complain about men using them for sex, or only wanting sex, because they see the sinful/lustful behavior, and they know it won't lead anywhere good.
In both cases, women use men for money because of greed. and men use women for sex because of lust.
Marriage does away with the sin, if done properly :)While I'm NOT denying that what you're saying is sometimes true, I do deny it is ALWAYS true.
I personally don't look at the age of a woman, because that SEVERELY LIMITS my options. I have in fact dated younger women and up to 5 years older than myself. I do NOT usually 'match' as well with women my age or greater and I dont mean for looks, but for personality and likes! Women my age or older seem to want things I'm NOT READY for. I've ALWAYS been younger than my age not only in looks, but in personality too!I think you're looking at this the wrong way. You're looking at everything men have asked to women. Have you ever considered the things that you ask a guy for?
Would you consider starting to make a list and marking down everything guys ask from you as well as everything that you ask guys for from guys? You gonna start to realize not everything men ask for from women is sex. And you're gonna realize How much you've actually been asking guys to do for you.SOME men prioritize sex over companionship
SOME women prioritize money over companionship
There's a million other gender-based stereotypes out there too, so there's a lot of dirty laundry on both sides of the closet, as well as plenty of clean folded laundry on hangars. It's all about which you are and what perspective you choose to take.What you said is TRUE, but only for a subset of men and women. For the majority of the others, sex and money are just one of several critical items they value in a relationship, and the others are just as critical.
Certainly there are hypocrits - male and female - but that's the exception to the rule.If we both were upfront about what we wanted to begin with without having to hide your true intentions by dating someone then it wouldn't be an issue.
But noooo, everyone has to lie for the sake of not looking about, despite the fact you will regardless because there's no way you'll be able to keep the lie alive long enough to get away with your hidden motives.
Ridiculousness.Because sex is a natural thing, and really nobody should be denied. You kind of dont really have a say. I'm a man and I like women just the way I am. Women shouldn't 'punish' men deny sex to prove a point or being pissed about something, its not supposed to work that way.
Now money is money a man made tool to participate in buying goods to survive thats about it. Just paper with numberd on it. Although as it stands women only want men with money and if you dont have any, there's always an excuse either it be ugly creepy, no sex etc.It doesn’t HAVE to be only about sex. I feel that sex is important but it’s not always about it IMHO. That’s kinda the same way with women and rich guys too. Sure having money can be nice but it really doesn’t mean shit when the dude is an asshole human being.
Your question is judging to stereotypes of shitty humans.it has been the way of the world for a long time. families used to marry off their own kids. in order to gain wealth and social standing.
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