Why do men here complain about women on when typically the average man is clueless about what women want if they're not into cheap easy sex?

[Anonymous]

I've just tried "Facebook dating" - yes not necessarily a good idea but i live in a small town for work.

And let's just say that the average man can't hold an intelligent conversation. One line responses, boring 😴 😑 content, immediately looking to meet up even ones saying looking for long term as I delete others saying causal, etc as not interested

I'm relatively attractive. In shape. And not wearing any revealing clothes. Profile is clearly indicated I'm not interested in flings, etc and well written

Like seriously 🙄

Why blame women when you men make yourself as appealing as a sponge 🧽

[inverted]

It’s not a gender thing. Most people in general put low effort into their profiles and messages. Both men and women.


I have the same exact kind of experiences that you talked about. I fill out my profile, list all my interests. I ask them questions about their profile, interests and pics. 70% of them give brief responses. Or they ONLY talk about themselves and never ask you questions.

[Anonymous]

It's the same thing on reddit and many other apps.

[Nikki1989]

I discovered a long time ago that men on here are a very poor representation of men. Thankfully, most men in the real world are not as insecure, misinformed, confused and brainwashed as some poor souls on here.

[inverted]

True. Sampling bias. People who are in happy relationships, or at least are socially well adjusted, are less likely to go on websites that discuss dating.

[jahaims]

The average person is a moron what do you expect