Girls, Why do girls like a guy on a dating app and then unmatch?

[Anonymous]

I get this often and you might be thinking maybe your profile is bland. I provide details what I do, my hobbies, type of music, movies I’m into. And when messaging I try to be creative by analyzing pictures— a certain book she’s reading, a tourist spot, something that may seem like nothing but talk about it to make it into something. Dating apps are truly depressing for guys and I’m a decent looking guy, in shape, working two jobs and going to grad school at the moment, 5ft8, athletic build…I just don’t get it. You like someone, he messages in a respectful way with something unique to say and unmatched. The standards of a guy pursuing a female today is pointless. Time to focus on myself forever, and worry about my job, my cars, my vacations myself ✌️ can’t tolerate immaturity. If anyone says the following a) maybe it’s you who’s giving them the ick or b) they don’t owe you anything. 1) why like a guys profile? 2) my mindset is marriage not a one night stand.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

The initial match is based off of a shallow attraction. The unmatching happens because they no longer find you attractive. It’s that simple

[Asker]

These girls on these apps aren’t Pamela Anderson running in slow motion baywatch style. I think I’m a handsome guy and being in shape is a bonus. So I’m never going to let that confidence break me. Women tend to be way too judgmental and picky and I see this girls on the app even 2 years later which means they haven’t found anyone anyways. If a woman is swiping for 2 years I’m sure there are guys not even including myself who are tall, handsome guys on the app.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Men tend to focus on the materialistic stuff, which makes sense to a certain degree but women want deeper connections. Yes, you’re materialistically attractive, but it seems the rest of you doesn’t have much to offer

[Asker]

Right because a profile is a gateway to fully knowing someone 100%. So if a woman is half naked on social
Media and cries that guys assume she’s a nimrod is that justifiable? Pamela Anderson was considered a bombshell, she’s actually a very nice, intelligent woman who speaks well. And I later realized that in life. That’s the difference.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Agreed, it takes time and whatever it is you’ve done in your interactions, it’s enough for them to decide you’re not worth the time

[Asker]

Ok but I haven’t done anything? I work 2 jobs and go to school. I don’t think people understand how tiring that is. I could be sitting on a bench eating a turkey sandwich 🥪 listening to music wearing track pants a black Tshirt and a girl says ew. Not only is that rude but it’s immature. I would never walk by a girl or woman, give her a dirty look in person when she’s minding her own business. If women and girls get mad on dating apps that a guy isn’t messaging, well once he does then she has to have calmness and maturity to understand, hey maybe he’s just busy to.

[Asker]

I gave the Pamela Anderson reference that’s she’s more than just beauty, why? Because I saw her beyond that, why? Because I have to see more in a person to judge then to assume. Women assume a lot before knowing. I have 3 older sisters and I’ve lost count how many times I’ve put my sisters in their place to re-think how they think about men.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Let’s just assume you gave them the ick and that’s why they stopped talking to you. I suggest that bc you just gave it to me

[Asker]

The problem with you women now is you want perfect everything in your mind at a young of everything you want as perfection. You know women always complain men and guys aren’t gentleman. Yet, guys back in the day would just approach a woman with flowers or friendly hello to make convo. Women and girls either find it boring if he says hi how’s it going. It’s funny you say I give you the ick. Im a believer in God, a lot of girls and women don’t respect the creator of this earth, the heavens and this entire universe. If I give you the ick if you want to insult me. I’ll be blunt — pride month is a satanic holiday that Abrahamic faiths are reject. I think having a pride month of little kids dancing around naked adults is pedophilia is mentally sick to accept. I’m a hard working, loyal, honest, trustworthy, Godfearing guy, if that gives you the “ick”, that’s your own demented assumption thinking and idgaf about that. But you supporting pedophilia should bother you. That’s the difference. A lot of women are messed up in the head.

[Asker]

By the way now when I think of it I remember you saying you’re gay and are only into women. Yeah you give me the ick to.

[Asker]

How does it feel that your life is one big ick? Like the assumptions made, the insults, your a grown ass woman trapped in a child’s body asking guys online for sexual services because you don’t know the meaning of hard work…good job 👏

[Asker]

By the way since you love to assume —

Although Allah is referring to non-believers, this concept can be readily applied to our lives. In Surah Hujurat, Allah reminds us of the repercussions of making such assumptions. “O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin.

I’ve read your comments how you attack guys on here by your assumptions, on the day of judgment, the day of reckoning, you and many of you assumers who committed sin will get whats coming to them, remember that.

[Asker]

You can report my posts, I don’t care I know I’m right. I actually value myself so I refuse to buy into your feminist satanic garbage. You hate guys on here and attack them because it gives you joy. Hence why you want guys to pay you to assault them. Listen, put down the cheeseburgers, hit a treadmill and lose weight then try to rip males online.