Girls, Why do some women get defensive when men say they value things like loyalty, femininity, or a modest past in a partner?

[Anonymous]

Because it’s easier to blame men than take accountability

Because looks let us avoid judgment

Because we know most men actually do care, but we ignore it

Because we think we shouldn’t have to change anything

[Apple1996]

Because there are double standards when it comes to these things. Men say they want all these things yet they aren't masculine, they aren't loyal, they dont have clean past. Its only acceptable for a man to ask for these things if he fits them as well

[Asker]

There are heaps of Guys out there like that.

The problem is you Women don't find them Attractive so you pretty much ignore them.

[Apple1996]

there's not. Most men are dirty hoes

[Asker]

Well that's your problem and your view.

If you keep calling Men dirty hoes then most Men are going to think that's what you are.

[Apple1996]

I litterally dont care if someone thinks im a hoe because I know im not

[Asker]

Don't you want to care about the ones you love?

[Apple1996]

Why would i care if my loved ones think im a hoe?

[Asker]

Why does anyone care?

So they can care about you and take care of you especially when things go wrong.

[Apple1996]

Okay they should do that regardless if im a hoe or not

[Asker]

So let me get this straight — men are supposed to care, provide, and fix everything when it all goes wrong.
But when a man’s struggling, suddenly no one’s there to care for him.
Where’s the ‘take care of you’ energy then? Oh right, it only flows one way.

[Apple1996]

Oh I meant loved ones my family/friends. Both men and women. I do the same and take care of my loved ones when they need it

[Asker]

How would you react if one of your friends or family thought you were a hoe and/or was embarrassed by you and how would you feel about it?