If a girl texts you after midnight that she is thinking about you, is that more an impulse message or a glimpse into how she really feels?

[Anonymous]

She was at a party

[Fanfare690]

Its hard to say. You could be her best friend and her wishing you were there... or maybe her real feelings are seeping through

[Asker]

I'm not her best friend. Yeah I was there for her but our relationship is undefined

[Fanfare690]

Just ask her out.

[Asker]

I'm not sure if she is interested in that. I don't know if she looks at me as "that guy"

[Fanfare690]

Then why the hell are you asking this question if you arnt going to do anything about it? Lol

[Asker]

If you weren't interested in a guy would you want him asking you out?

[Fanfare690]

Absolutely not. But she might be showing signs of interest. Its up to you to step up... and then you'll know instead of worrying

[Asker]

I see. I will see what is up. You really think that vague message is a sign of interest? If not Interest its a window?

[Fanfare690]

I mean it could go both ways. Why not try finding out if she likes you. You can kill A LOT of time by just asking her...

[slatyb]

It's probably a real feeling, or maybe she was just lonely. Have you dated? Do you want to?

[Asker]

We never dated but I like her and she knows it

[slatyb]

It's likely she's telling you she's DTF. Ask her out and see what happens.

[Asker]

If you don't mind me asking, why would it mean that?