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Sometimes the double standards. I guess that could apply to women to a certain extent as well, but I'm talking about things such as following half naked (or basically naked) OF models on Instagram but then he gets jealous about a random guy that likes her posts. Or he has a dad bod but wants a fit gym girl. Stuff like that.
Also, ageist guys who act like turning 30 is a crime if you're a woman. Pathetic.
Turning 30 isn't a crime, you'll just get less attention from men if you're overweight or average. Life is one long, losing battle against gravity.
@SixFootSexy it's not just that guys don't go for 30 year old women as much as 20 year olds, I don't care what people prefer. It's the comments I've seen some guys make about 30+ year old women
That evil contempt they display when they know they have you turned on and they find humor in your state of arousal
Not accepting or respecting it when we say NO.
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I know we all do it but to me, it seems guys lie about the dumbest things lol I know they do it to keep peace at times but it usually ends in an argument anyway. I'll give you an example.
My last boyfriend was at a bar and was showing pictures and talking to a friend about our trip to Cancun, our friend was thinking about going. My boyfriend had too much to drink, so he got a ride home. I asked him how he got home and he said it was from our friend. Well, a couple days later a ran into the bartender of the bar they were at (she's a mutual friend of ours and a very nice person) and she told me that my boyfriend forgot his Cancun pictures in her car the night she gave him a ride home 🤦 I kind of get why he lied but it would have been easier just to tell the truth!
hahaha, well yeah, a very understandable lie on his part. It's cool that you take it for what it is 👌🏼. Now you just have to make him understand that you're more relaxed than what he thinks? If that ever was the beginning of an issue at all
I think “toxic” gets overused, I don’t think the majority of guys or the majority of girls are overall “toxic” I think that is really just people with emotional problems or things like that, like the saying “hurt people hurt people”.
I would rather talk about the opposite sex’s most annoying traits to me, which are 1) not cleaning up at all, to the point of grossness and inconvenience, 2) I sometimes feel deflated when I am feeling proud of something I did or like I think I look elegant for some occasion or something and they just want to grab my butt or do something else that is like “cheesy sexual” or whatever or make some comment that seems like a 13yo would have said it. Although on the other hand sometimes that makes me laugh so I guess there is a positive side to it also.
ya well u got a nice butt
Big general umbrella... an unhealthy relationship with accountability is women's big problem. And I get that society is partly to blame. Little girls are told they are princesses. They're told they're beautiful. Daughters never hear the word "NO".
Until they grow up and get rejected. Or screw up at work. Or run into other women who are just as self absorbed and unable to be held accountable for their actions. Suddenly everyone is "mean", "attacking them", or "spiteful". Uh, no honey. You've been living in a false reality for 25 years. Welcome to the real world.
I wouldn't say most would be hard to make one since there is many to all humans.
But a more unique to women is them being fake friends with some fat girl and telling her she is brave while she's hurting her health, a toxic thing girls do as they see it removes competition and makes them stand out as more pretty around them. A girl was super overweight on Oxygen literally due to her weight and you see girls say "you go girl!", "Don't let anyone tell you what size a woman should be!"
Guys mostly would shit on their friend for being overweight or mind their own business. Not this fake awful pretense of being for body positiveity that ruins lives.
Women try to feminise men... and then lose interest in them. They're all like "you need to share your feelings more", but when men actually do that, women get all grossed out and back off. I'm all for more equality, but why is there an assumption that everyone has to do it on entirely feminine terms and adhere to feminine standards?
It would be far better to have women adhere to male social standards instead. To stop crying about things, say what they mean at all times, quit regarding victimhood as desirable, to learn to suppress their feelings properly, and to solve their problems with good old fashioned fisticuffs rather than underhanded social sabotage and passive-aggressive bullshit.
Being emotionally unavailable at times or always. When men shut down, they completely shut down in a way that's hard to reach them. This is not all men but I find it troubling that they would rather hold all that they feel in than let it out to the woman they love because of pride or feeling that she will eventually use it against him. It's not healthy and can lead to so many bad things like depression.
@Simslover92,
LOL, guys are caught between a rock and a hard place. We've learned that some women complain men are "emotionally unavailable". We've also learned "sharing feelings" with some women will get us a total loss of respect as a man and exiled to the "friend zone" or a cheating girlfriend / wife almost overnight. Because most women say they want us to share (it's the politically correct response, right) but at the end of the day women NEVER want to take on a man's problems. Women want a man to take on their problems.
And we men NEVER know which type of woman we are actually dealing with until we spill our guts and she instantly views us as less than a man. So men have learned to suck it up and take that stuff to our graves. It's not depressing. It's just the way it is. Women want and men give. Women don't give. We are trained to understand that social contract from a young age.
You'll never know what's really going on in our lives, at work, in our families, with our friends, or our relationship with you. You get sunshine and unicorns. We know help isn't coming. We figure life out for ourselves. You get a perfect wall of stone. Because that's what most women show they really want.
I can't speak for the majority of women but I can speak for myself when I say that that is not the case. I'd rather a man be vulnerable with me than keep things in. I've witnessed firsthand what keeping stuff in for a man looks like in a mental institution when I worked at mental health, it's not pretty. I'd rather a man risk being vulnerable than to keep all that stuff that their dealing with in. It's not healthy and it does indeed bring on depression or rage. I've talked to some married men who feel this way. They often turn to other women for confiding in because they feel like their wives wouldn't understand which is a problem. You should be going to the one you trust and love the most. Not some random woman.
But I totally understand where you're coming from. There are a lot of women who are like that where they end up not respecting the man or cheating but that's not all women.
You shouldn't penalize all women for some women's mistakes. There are a lot of women who would be great confidantes. You just have to give them a chance.
Oh, I don't doubt your sincerity.
So how does a guy know which type of woman he's dealing with? Because most women are NOT direct communicators. They will never answer a tough question directly if they can avoid it. You'll never know when she's telling the truth or lying to be politically correct and not seem like an asshole. They WILL expect a guy to read their minds and know what they are "feeling". Then they blame the guy when he gets it wrong. It's an absolutely insane approach to communication. So we men just choose to NOT communicate about anything that isn't rainbows and unicorns.
It takes time to figure that out, but if you've met the right woman, it shouldn't be too hard. Like I said before, not all women apply to that. But the one who gets you like really gets you down to your very soul, that's the one you can confide in and turn to when you feel like the world is against you and your back is against the ropes.
I will agree that we communicate on totally two different wavelengths for the most part but we can come together and discuss things on a deeper emotionally level. You just have to find the right woman who won't judge, cheat, or criticize. And who will be genuinely direct in communicating.
It's hard to find but not impossible.
@Zylos ,
I have that covered. When I answer their "what do you do" query, they are either confused and intrigued because they don't understand what I just told them. Or they have some vague idea what I'm talking about and I become mysterious to them because all they know of people like me is the fiction they've seen in Hollywood movies. It's hilarious on the one hand and tedious trying to explain it to them on the other hand. Hence one reason I don't engage with many women.
@OneViewpoint I am guessing you are an accountant.
@zylos,
Sort of. I do have degrees in accounting and finance. But for 15 years I wasn't using them. I travelled a lot for my job.
@OneViewpoint I fucking knew it, you are Ben Affleck.
@Zylos ,
Oh God, not you too, LOL. No, I wasn't freelancing. I was working the other side of the street. But now you know how the conversation goes. I did freelance for a while later on. However i did end up using my degrees in Fortune 100 and Private Equity eventually.
See why I don't want to interact with many people, ROFL.
Women are selfish greedy and shallow in my opinion that's their most toxic traits. Literally most woman are just fancy whores. 70% of woman say that in a relationship finances are the most important thing meaning 70% of woman are with a man primarily for money meaning that they're putting out for financial security which is prostitution so 70% of woman are whores.
Whore = Definition: A prostitute.
Prostitute = Definition: a person, in particular a woman, who engages in sexual activity for payment.
If your primary concern in a relationship is financial stability and gain and everything else is secondary you are by definition a whore whether you're married or not. In fact, if you have a body count of 1 but it was money motivated you by definition are a whore.
Materialism. The male focus on materialistic ideas such as appearance and transactional relationships are the most toxic aspect of masculinity as the focus on it leads to an inability to focus or even attempt to be considerate of others.
Girls talk to talk, like they'll call or text to talk. They don't need something to talk about; they just want to talk. Guys aren't like that. We'll call or text when we have something to talk about. So, girls need to understand that guys might not contact them because they don't have anything to talk about. My dad and I can go weeks without talking and don't take it personally. If one of has something to say, we'll say it.
"Fine" and it's NOT and you don't wanna discuss it like an adult
Also, "what / when do you want to eat?" DONT STONEWALL US! DONT ASK US BACK WHAT WE WANT!! WE DONT CARE!!! WE JUST WANT YOU TO BE HAPPY & SATISFIED!!
m Looking at the comments, I'm really really glad to live a life where I see no opposite sex's toxic trait to talk about.
However I find sad how there's still some men believing they could or should act as elected representative of men. Because I really didn't vote for that, at all.
I feel like a lot of women have a superiority complex.
As a man, they treat you like you are nothing.
Sadists and hypocrites who think their behavior is normal.
Submissiveness , which can be a result of simping or maybe not. But something AbOut men being submissive and too agreeable repels me.
I haven't noticed.
I just have experienced in my life both decent and horrible trashy people of both genders showing their disgusting conduct.
Women? Their propensity for making false accusations.
closed-mindedness, argumentative, prude
Their victim mindset.
@ez-bri-z_v2 Thank you for the upvote. But to be transparent, I was talking about women like you.
Why do some men feel the need to mansplain to women? ↗
You're welcome for the upvote, now live with the knowledge that you are the one playing the victim here taking personal umbrage with the question I posted.
Nah, not offended at all. I just couldn't resist calling out the irony for the comedy value.
Sure sure. Dont deny it now lmao
Just the facts, ma'am.
The facts are that you went digging through my post history just to find an example of what you wanted your narrative to be. That's both you being offended and also a bit creepy on your end.
Again, not offended, just calling you out.
And no, I didn't go digging through your post history. I just grabbed it from my browsing history (I remembered reading that other question) which literally took 10 seconds.
Are you done deflecting yet?
So you remembered reading a question over a month ago and then went digging through my profile to find it just to post it? That, sir, IS creepy.
Aside from that, it isn't victim mentality when it's true that it happens.
Changing their mind a lot.
Men like rough sex
dont you? :o
Not all do
Not being direct communicators.
Double standards if we're being general.
Wanting to be in total control
Overthinking and then taking it all to their head
Being selfish or lying
GOLD DIGGING !!!
I don't like girls who are patriarchal.
Not being a virgin
women are too emotional sometimes.
Nagging.
Hypocrisy.
Personality traits aren't exclusive to gender
I think it is dangerous to generalize.
Their minds lol
Can you pls send me private message?
No porch time
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