Girls help! Should I dump him or keep seeing him? would you date a guy that refuse call you his girlfriend?

[Sugar100]

It’s one month of dating we met weekly 2-3x a wk, text daily, sleep weekends together hugging like a married couple, no sex just bjs 3x very short. I even took care of his dog once while he went to work. I made him food 2x. But now as it’s one month i try ask and he refuse confirm what we are. he's done this 2x and ignore answer the question and laugh it off or change topic.

I don’t do friends with benefits I don’t do situationships.
so I can easily tell any guy I have no boyfriend and then what if another guys my boyfriend since this guy refuse call me his girlfriend? And we’ll continue dating for months years and I’ll still get no label I have experience in this.

He’s still forcing me to see him but if I continue he’ll eventually want sex and it’ll not be fair as he’ll get sex and I’m nothing not a girlfriend. So I need leave before he get ssex

[Anonymous]

You tell him that since you’re single you will continue to date other people. And then you do as you say. You date other guys too. You also tell him, again, that there will be no sex until you’re in a committed official relationship. And you stick to that. If he tries anything you remind him ONCE and if doesn’t immediately respect that then you tell him since you keep trying to cross my boundaries and disrespect me I don’t want to continue dating you - and then you don’t. You leave, block and move on. You should also stop the BJ’s.

[Sugar100]

Thank u girl I told him that

[Sugar100]

I really needed help.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If he’s forcing you, he’s not even boyfriend material. That’s not even worth fuck buddy material. Dump his bitch ass

[SixFootSexy]

"I don’t do friends with benefits" girl, you are giving him BJ's without being in a relationship... Maybe that's all he wants.

[Sugar100]

Its cuz people say u jut date then that means ur a couple. 🙄

[SixFootSexy]

@Sugar100 You have to be the one to set the boundaries, a guy is not going to do that for you.

[Anonymous]

Your gut is screaming at you, listen to it and dont look back

[Sugar100]

What u tbink
Of this situation?

[Opinion Owner]

" I don't do friends with benefits, I dont do situationships." These are your boundaries. Unless YOU enforce them, no one else will. It sounds like you tried to bring it up, and he ignored you. So enforce your boundary until he has the conversation or find someone who will respect you without as much resistance.

[Sugar100]

All guys r like this. Suppsivly I hear only church guys want relationships but it seems all other guys on the planet don’t want call u their girlfriend

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sorry if this has been your experience so far. I hope one day you find someone who proves you wrong and makes you happy

[Sugar100]

All my family bring a boyfriend or partner to the family parties. I’m alone since no guy wants come and say I’m his girlfriend

[Sugar100]

It’s ok if we don’t marry I just want a damn boyfriend short term meet family that’s it. They won’t die

[sinestro23]

u can't claim not to do friends with benefits when that's literally what you're describing...

[Sugar100]

But we don’t hav sex, I thought dating weekly was a boyfriend? That’s what people say? I’m confuse. I thought we were dating.

[sinestro23]

ur blowing him.. that's still a sexual benefit

[Sugar100]

So girls that date guy weekly don’t do bjs either?

[Sugar100]

I didn’t know bj counted as fwbs

[grungeberry]

He got hoes in different area codes…good riddance

[StephanieChick111]

Give him pussy. That's what girlfriends do.

[WonderingManII]

Something sounds strange.

[Ariesman81]

Quit using sex as a bargaining tool