A female co-worker who's a bully is in love with me, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

She often bullies other people, but I found out she's in love with me for some reason, she was really flirting with me the other day and called me a cutie pie.

[TrimmedTip]

If she's a bully and now flirting with you, that's a red flag, not a compliment. Here's what you can do:

Set clear boundaries – Be polite but firm. If you're not interested, let her know without being rude.
Don’t reward bad behavior – Just because she likes you doesn’t excuse how she treats others.
Document things – If her behavior crosses the line (harassment, manipulation, etc.), keep track in case you need to report it.
Stay professional – Keep work about work. Avoid getting pulled into drama.
Bottom line: just because someone likes you doesn’t mean you owe them anything—especially if they treat others poorly.

[RavVid]

I'd stay away. You already know she is a low quality person because she bullies others.

A lot of people know that people are bad news but somehow think they won't do to them. It is just not your turn yet and they will.

Eventually she will turn on you. You'll have problems with her either way you go. HR complaints, false accusations etc.

[Asker]

Not gonna lie, her flirting with me was a bit tempting because she is a good looking woman.

[RavVid]

By all means have sex with her but just be aware of her nature and that at some point she will turn her bullying to you because that is her nature. She might make sexual accusations against you because that is an easy power play now.

[dustybiker2]

As others have warned, she will only leave you damaged. Aim for healthy people and treat them well.

[EmmaMary]

Why not ask her if she would like you to give her a damn good fucking... Simples!

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Shiprex]

Walk away and keep her at arms length. She can cause all sorts of damage to you and your reputation as well as potential for a career.

[mrshooiser]

Don't go there. She will treat you bad also.

[Ask105]

She probably screws people over so think twice

[In_Trance]

Get back to work before you get written up