What's going on in girls' minds when they suddenly start acting distant?

[Anonymous]

I am very interested in how this works. As far as I know, this is not a rare phenomenon and I am not the only one who has encountered it. My girlfriend and I have a great relationship, but the only thing I don't like about her is her apathetic episodes, when she becomes cold, distant, unenthusiastic and passive and doesn't say what's wrong. She sometimes gives dry replies, which can easily be interpreted as passive aggression and "yeah yeah sure, now f- off", but when the apathy passes, she says that she never puts disdainful thoughts even in her dry messages and that she loves me very much. Girls, what happens to you in such moments that you lose the desire to communicate with your loved one who wants to help and support you? When I am in a bad mood or feel apathetic, I am still ready to communicate with my girlfriend, I never distance myself from her and talking to her helps me calm down and distract myself. It's a bit sad that it only works one way. It's a bit sad that it doesn't work the other way around.

[Nikki1989]

She might be hurt by something you said or did, but she's not sure how to bring it up. She may also be upset that you didn't notice she was upset in the first place. The distance is a signal that something is wrong and that she's waiting for you to notice and ask her about it.

[linka_pat307]

Sometimes its insecurity or they want to see how much you care or it could periods that come with moody changes

[Wuai201]

I got damaged, so usually I become distant when I told you the problem before and you did it again. I'm tired

[Anonymous]

i distance myself when he makes me feel less , not enough , insecure. Or when he hurted me and does not understand how he hurt me

[Asker]

Well, there was never anything like that in our relationship. We never had a fight in the months of our relationship and I never offended her.

[Opinion Owner]

U made her feel less. Something happened trust me

[Opinion Owner]

How do u know she loves u very much

[Asker]

Because she says it. When we meet she acts very cute, nicely and tactilely and when her "cold days" pass she communicates with me as good as always

[Opinion Owner]

Why do u love her