Girls: why might you suddenly become distant all of a sudden?

[OldboyJon]

you know just uhh curious for future references lol

[dragonizedice]

Mood swings... being a chick is fucked up. Sometimes we get distant coz we zone out... other times it's because you've done something to upset us and we don't wanna tell you. Majority of the time, we blame men for not knowing what they have done even though we clearly know that they don't and probably never will. We want the guy to keep trying to placate us even though they think they've done nothing wrong. And we want him to want to do what we want them to do, not just do it coz we want them to. We expect them to be psychic, even though we know they'r not. Basically, we're impossible at times.

[Brookej912]

There are only two reasons why I become distant. The first is because I am no longer interested and I'm slowly trying to back out of the relationship. The second is because I'm upset with the way a guy has been acting toward me (possibly not being attentive enough) so I step away or become distant in order to hint that he needs to be the one to initiate what he wants next because I don't think he's actually into me.

[Lonleygirl]

They might have lost interest or have had a change of feelings they might not know how to tell you and express their feelings so they just ignore you instead, best you just ask the girl why she's ignoring you, there could be 100 reasons!

[1cubby1]

Distance means lost interest or got distracted. Need more info. But if you have the question "was it because I..." Then yes, yes it is because of that and you fail. Haha but your hot, there are others.

[OldboyJon]

LOL im hot? word!! but naw i didn't ask that question "was it because" i dont really have a situation where a girl is being distant towards me just curious haha like if the guy is so called clingy or whatever

[1cubby1]

"Was it because I was clingy?"... I think you just answered it

[OldboyJon]

im not the clingy type but interesting LOL

[Metal189]

they dont believe guys and girls can be just friends, and she probably lost interest

[moistycakes]

If we make contact too frequently or you annoy me with texts or calls etc... It depends on the specific situation, sometimes it could just be me wanting some time to myself or I'm really busy.

[lex217]

it's hard to say without a scenario, but maybe if the guy was being really clingy. or maybe if he was being rude all the time.

[OldboyJon]

ok you two have been flirting and at the nickname Bae & hubby stage and he's persistent in setting up dates with the girl in hanging out wit her and its obvious he likes her but she's sometimes the plans get canceled due to work. he only texts to set up plans but she doesn't tell him she can go unless the guy contacts her and she tells the guy " i can't wait to go and see you soon" she never texts/snapchats him first but is engaged when he texts her and quiet to him in person and totally natural around other guys but randomly her texts start coming hours later or not at all but she still views his snapchat stories or likes his IG photos but never contacts him

[chocolateismylover]

I may not be interested anymore. Maybe we contact each other too much and I think some space would be good. You might've done something I didn't like and I didn't want to tell you or I just felt like being distant all of a sudden.