Why do girls become distant?

[Anonymous]

I feel like my friend is getting slowly distant from me... she doesn't text as she used to, she doesn't seem excited, she seems like awkward. She doesn't like me as a friend anymore?

I don't understand... I did do anything wrong or I think so, what happened?
Why you become distant to a friend?

[wtf636]

I don't know what it has to do with her being a woman, but I can tell you how that happens with me sometimes. I'm a bit of an introverted person, but I still like to go out here and there.

Some of my friends, I always have to go meet them somewhere. I always go to their house, or meet at a bar, whenever I suggest them coming to my place to just chill for the night, they make some excuse. It's always what they want to do, and I get tired of it.

So I stop trying to hang out with them as much. I will ask if they want to hang heree and there, but if they keep giving me the same answers, I'm not gonna go out of my way to be friends with someone always on their terms.

I would first examine how you are in your relationship with her. If you are doing any of the above things, then that could be a reason.

It could be just that you 2 are growing apart, it happens, just part of life. But really the only thing you can do is ask her. Just say you notice we have been distant, is there a reason, I doubt it would be that awkward of a convo. Maybe she is just going through some shit.

[Asker]

Oh thank you very much for this opinion! Well we haven't know each other for a long time, like 10 months. She's like a little introvert person, Regardless of that, she's a mice person and have plenty friends. I always try to include her when we hang out with friends, when she talks I pay attention. Basically, I'm a good friend, at least I try. At the beginning she was nice, but now she's getting distant. She has a lot of insecurities, once she told she doesn't like to be clingy but I don't think this is the case, she seems like not interested to be friends with us anymore... slowly stepping away. I don't really know what's happening

[RearEntryGuy]

Boy meets girl; boy gets close; boy leaves.

Same as:
Girl meets boy; girl gets close; girl leaves.

It a SOP of relationships. Even many marriages ended up in divorces. Not to mention your scenario.

Hence accept it, she moves on, so should you.

[shregotnochill]

she probably has a lot going on in her life rn, or maybe she got to know about something u did/said behind her, and is not that comfortable talking to you anymore? I don't know just saying this from experience

[Asker]

I do feel that she doesn't feel comfortable anymore, but I dont know why, I never talk from behind to anyone

[Anonymous]

I get distant from my male friends when I see or hear they got feelings for me and I’m not interested. I don’t want to hurt their feelings for we are friends do I just take a step back for a while

[Anonymous]

Maybe she has bipolar mate... my girl has it too and there are times where they feel distant and it almost feel like we're losing them but we're not its just the chemical imbalance in their brain... and they react the way that you had describe... follow me if you want more insight on this

[Anonymous]

I get distant when they cross my boundaries. I have a bunch of boundaries when it comes to friendship.

[Hangry06]

Maybe she's going through something personal

[In_Trance]

probably because you become distant