How do you go from a shy woman to initiate giving your cookie to a man twenty year older?

[Smokingiteeee]

I need to be touched and I heard he’s interested. I’m shy so I can’t be direct so I need advice how to get touched by a man …

[BadApple69]

Men are stupid at times. If you’re not direct he won’t get it lol.
Have a friend help you, say “hey my friend and I are going out after work to get a drink, want to come?

[Berethor]

Are you a virgin? yea it tend to be hard to a shy women to give her cookie to a man.

[bowenw]

Do some subtle flirting with him to see how he reacts.

[Smokingiteeee]

I’m too shy to even be around him on purpose. He hasn’t gone out his way to see me either.

He had a chance recently and didn’t try to come see me. I was right in the next room and he knew it.

Also if I ever get to see him again, me flirting is so silly because I’m shy and would come off awkward and not stop smiling and giggling probably.

[bowenw]

You know what is best for you. Do your best to try to talk to him. It may help if you use a wingman/wingwoman to help start a conversation with him.

[Smokingiteeee]

I see. Thanks. I don’t know anyone but my mom. I can’t tell her to be my wingwoman. 🤣

I wish he would just make a real move or at least talk to me.

[bowenw]

Try to hang out around him and hope that he does.

[Smokingiteeee]

I’m too shy to do that honestly

[bowenw]

Just do whatever you are comfortable doing.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Chocolate chip, fudge or oatmeal cookie?