Does he see her as a child who he isn’t ok dating, a fuck object, or marriage material? Be honest. I NEED TO KNOW. I have a crush on this older man and from his expressions I feel like I’m his daughter (that wants to fuck him though ). He’s so smart and just… that’s why I like older men. They’re just on another planet than me. I just wonder don’t even have a chance at love?
Look I'm only 37. So I can't answer your question from their perspective. But I can tell you that they would look at a 30 year old as essentially an equal. Definitely no daughter shit (not just because of the age difference. I guess you could have that type of relationship. But that's doubtful since you want to fuck him).
So you need to quit putting this dude up on a pedistal.
He is NOT on another planet from you. That's the exact problem with what you wrote here. They AREN'T on another planet any more than you and I are!
You need to step back and do some deep-breathing. For real. Because... he's just an old dude. Relax. Just... an old dude.
A 50 year old would love attention from 30 year old's generally speaking. You're young. But not so young that it's likely to be an issue. You're good. He's just an old dude, not freaking silver-fox-super-god. You will be at your best. If you approach him as though he is on the same planet. You are way more likely to appear in away where your age works against you... if you... idolize him like a 12 year-old at a backstreet boys concert (in your view... not... the actual screaming. Can you imagine?)
Anyway. For your own sake. Take this guy off the pedestal and just treat him like any guy you like. That's all he is. 🙂
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At 30 he probably does see you as an attractive woman, but I'm not sure he would be seeking a relationship. Are you both single?
I'd personally be wary of having a relationship with a woman >10 years younger than me, as while it might be fine for 2-3 years, but after that the gap in interests might emerge.
I'm 19 so he would see me as a little girl and a sex toy but at 30 he would see you as a woman and a realistic person for a second wife. I would be a sex toy for a guy in his 30s but not 50.
Yeah, in my experience most guys don’t really have a lower age limit.
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Realistically, you'll be a fuck object more than someone he wants around for a true emotional connection.
He could see them as any of what you list in your first sentence. Depends on the guy and, to a lesser extent, the girl, and on the circumstances in which they know each other.
I married a much older man, and he treats me with far more respect than any man I have ever been with.
He sees her as a young, mature, attractive adult woman that he could probably never get
If he was pushing 70, I'd say he might see you as a kidI'd imagine it depends on the guy. I'm close to 50 and I can tell you I don't look at 30 old women as kids. But single women at 30+ are typically single for a reason. You reach and age where all the evidence adds up and you you're not going to get involved unless you feel she's truly worth it. In short he probably just simply doesn't want on that roller coaster.
I have a daughter that is almost 30 so I would think it was creepy to date somebody my daughter's age. You could be one of her friends.
Every day is different depends how serious the guy is if he wants marriage.
Depends on the guy and his intentions more then age.
I usually see them through binoculars.
He’s gonna fuck you, he’ll date you, but don’t think he’s giving you a baby.
Would depend on how things develop
As too old.
Quite tasty!
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