What does it mean if a girl texts you first but she never initiates plans?

[Anonymous]

[LØRDOFÐΞBUG-RA]

I’ve gone through the same situations many times, and since I had no experience or knowledge, they all ended. If a girl is messaging you even when you’re not showing interest or making the first move, then you should definitely be the one to plan it tell her you want to hang out. At the very least, by asking this, you’ll clearly understand her intentions too. Women are terrible at making plans they expect this from men.

[Asker]

I didn't know if I should make plans because I thought she only viewed me as a friend

[LØRDOFÐΞBUG-RA]

Bro, guys and girls can’t stay “just friends” forever unless it’s at work or there’s some kind of benefit involved. If you keep it going as pure friendship, sooner or later she’s gonna roll up with other dudes as her boyfriends right in front of you. Cut that shit off now, otherwise you’ll just regret it later.

[Asker]

Do you think when she text me first I should just take a shot and live with the results?

[LØRDOFÐΞBUG-RA]

Yeah, actually when she first texted you, you could’ve steered the conversation toward something like, “hey, let’s grab a coffee” or “let’s go hang out somewhere.” The longer you wait, the more she’ll lose interest in you.

[Asker]

I see what you're saying and you're right but who's to say she had interest in the first place?

[Staximus]

She is waiting for you to grow some balls and ask her out on a date

[Asker]

Even if we've known each other for years?

[Nikki1989]

She is testing the waters. It is not rocket science.

[In_Trance]

It means she wants to talk to you but doesn't necessarily want to do anything with you

[Asker]

That's exactly what it looks like

[Abbycado]

She wants you to ask her out.

[Asker]

Why would it mean that?

[Anonymous]

She expect u to man up

[Asker]

Do you think if a lot of time has passed and she never initiated plans she doesn't want to hang out?

[Opinion Owner]

U don’t like her do u. She’s definitely not your dream girl

[Asker]

Where did I say I didn't like her?

[Opinion Owner]

U like the attention not her

[Anonymous]

I suppose she is indecisive.

[Asker]

At a certain point I think she just doesn't want to do jt

[Opinion Owner]

I guess you're right.