If a girl never texts you first, does that mean she has no interest in you?

[Anonymous]

Responds to texts but doesn't initiate them. What does it mean? She's a coworker by the way.

[lilyanony1]

My ex told me not to ask him his business.
He told me he's busy at work and can't take my calls.
He said I was annoying when I used to talk crap with him just to pass the time of time as I wanted to hear his voice.
He told me I was immature and clingy and needed to grow up.
He told me that I shouldn't worry because he's with me and he will always keep in touch even if it's one text a day.
He told me he is working to get rich to create a legacy.
So I backed off. When I needed him I didn't call him first, but he would get annoyed that he was the last person to know anything going on in my life.
When I was going out with my friends he got annoyed because he wasn't there especially if there were guys there too.
When I seemed happy and wanted to try something new sexually as it had been a while he accused me of cheating.
When I was slim and maintained it in a way that made me happy apparently I was too skinny.
When I stopped being happy, when I lost friends, when I put on weight he started making me feel more like crap, like I had to keep to his schedule.

There are some women that like being lead and chased. Some that take it easy. Some women that wait for things to warm up to open up.
Some that follow instructions given. And there are some women that really have a life of their own that may even have other love interests.

The only way you can work this one out is by making the effort and seeing if it's matched or if you're cool with how she is to continue.

Relationships are straightforward. We just complicate things when we aren't honest with ourselves.

[lilyanony1]

Thanks for bi'bot choice 😊👍🏾

[jennifer_bloom]

It could be a test to see if you like her - me I don’t initiate texts cause I hate waiting not knowing if and when they will reply

[Aquiline_feast]

Fuck it... that's the only answer you need to hear from any stranger.

[Asker]

what?

[Aquiline_feast]

Have sex. Enjoy sharing your feelings with your sex skill, use your around the world experience, figure it, twist it, make it orgasm then stick on it then only then you are going to see the solution of your and her chemical imbalance.

[J_12_L]

Usually... try and not text her for a bit

[Presidentee]

She’s not interested.