If women really think looks don't matter why do they spend so much time obsessing over their looks?

[Anonymous]

Ego

looks matter

[Nikki1989]

Looks matter, but nowhere to the extent as some men have been brainwashed into believing. Traits like a good personality, kindness and compassion, respect, intelligence, a sense of humor, honesty and integrity, and good communication skills top the list.

[Asker]

so you would say? you wouldn't choose to be born. extremely good looking if you could... because looks don't matter that much... you'd rather have a "good personality"; be an ogre

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Looks matter to men, and we live in a patriarchal society that favors men. Women are told they’re not allowed to be shallow, that to value someone only for their looks is morally wrong. Men are not held to this same standard, not in the same way. Women are also constantly told that if they are not beautiful they don’t matter. That’s why women spend “so much time” on their appearances, because society is not made to make women happy

[Chayce]

Looks matter for women. Beauty is their thing. Strength is ours, whether it be physical, or having resources to ensure survival.

[Anonymous]

because women do care about looks despite hypocritically claiming they don't care

[Abbycado]

I’ve never said looks don’t matter. It’s just not the most important thing. Why do you care what we do tho?

[Asker]

I think looks are the most important thing on earth because they show your personality

[Abbycado]

Wow, do you see the irony in how backwards that is?

[Asker]

That's not backwards at all. if someone looks ugly, they're have an ugly personality

[BriamG22]

Haha you can't be serious rn 🤣

[HollyK21]

Fuck sake!😂💀 what sort of logic?

[BriamG22]

@HollyK21 Following his logic he must look like an abomination given his shitty personality 🤣

[Abbycado]

I couldn’t even believe when I read that. I seriously burst into laughter at how backwards it is. XD

[HollyK21]

@briamG22 you hit the nail on the head lol I refuse to believe anything else! He absolutely looks like Nosferatu💀

[HollyK21]

This mindset is why he’s single Abby lol

[Abbycado]

I wonder what coward anons see in the mirror lol

[BriamG22]

Haha I spat out my drink as well. What forest did this guy emerge from 🤣🤣🤣

[BriamG22]

@HollyK21 Haha, I'm imagining more a baboon like look given that they probably have a similar IQ level.

[HollyK21]

I’m cracking up over here😂😂💀

[BriamG22]

@HollyK21 I'm honestly curious to see if he responds and what level of degeneracy will be attained

[HollyK21]

I doubt he’ll respond now that another man has joined the conversation lol he probably feels betrayed by you😂😂💀

[BriamG22]

@HollyK21 haha I think most people regardless of gender are gonna betray him given this dumbass take lol.

[heruncommonsense]

What the fck are you talking about? I don't claim that looks don't matter, nor do I obsess over my looks. The only difference between how I look in private and public is that I wear animal bracelets in public.

[Abbycado]

This guy, like many here, is unplugged from reality.

[Ninania]

I like playing with my looks, like dressing up an avatar. I don't dress to make myself attractive most of the time - I dress for a vibe, and/or for comfort.

[Flower7]

I don’t know of any woman who feels that looks don’t matter.

[Anonymous]

When we say looks don't matter we're talking about men. Our looks matter to men a lot.

[Anonymous]

Because men's looks don't matter but their own looks matter!

[Anonymous]

Not all the girls are like that.