Is this the big breakup chat?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend hasn’t asked about me since she’s been back from her intense film shoot trip. And she has responded to my messages but she doesn’t respond to flirty or affectionate messages although this may just be me overthinking. Then today she asked if I’m around this weekend or next week after work and asked if we could go get a tea somewhere Sunday evening after I said I’m free then. I asked her if it’s bad as she’s never asks me for a tea and then asked if everything’s ok and she said “Oh I just meant more to catch up”. Is this the end?

Yes she plans to break up with you Sunday evening

no she actually does just want to catch up

[_Maya_]

You seem very insecure in your relationship if this to you means it is the end. If she was away presumably working if it was a film shoot then she is likely very tired. Have you never traveled away from home for a while? It is tiring. You mostly have to eat out and you are not surrounded by the comforts of your own home. I have. I know that when I get back I just want to unwind. That is probably the case here. It isn't like she is ignoring you or anything. She is responding to your texts and wants to meet up. When she says "catch up" why is that so threatening to you? She just wants to catch up with what has been going on while she was away.

[Asker]

Yeah it’s true think the issue is more me here.

[Asker]

My insecurity is what will destroy the relationship

[Asker]

Although having said that she’s not really reacted to my excitement about our holiday we have planned in December, anything affectionate I’ve sent like virtual cuddles or mentions of past dates

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for making a mountain out of a molehill it seems like you are doing that but on the other hand the light at the end of the tunnel could be a freight train. As for the future the one thing about it is that it isn’t written yet & as for the future anything can happen.

As for you you’re jumping to conclusions & expecting a breakup & to be honest I hope she does breakup with you you & so don’t have to worry about breaking up any more.

Enjoy Your Tea.

[Asker]

Haha, what a great prose

[Flower7]

What do you mean when you say she hadn’t “asked about you”? Like how you are doing?

[Asker]

Yes, exactly that. How I’m doing, what I’ve been up to etc

[Flower7]

Well why didn’t you tell her? You say you’ve been chatting regularly.

[Asker]

She never messaged me first when she returned. She was more distant. But then again she did say she’s exhausted.

[Asker]

Although having said that she’s not really reacted to my excitement about our holiday we have planned in December, anything affectionate I’ve sent like virtual cuddles or mentions of past dates