Do women value appearance, character or self-confidence more on guys?

[funnyguy11]

Dear ladies, what is most important to you?

Appearance

Character

Self-confidence

[Amy_Mi]

The real ones value energy, the harmony of all three.

Looks catch the eye, confidence keeps the interest, but character decides the stay.

A handsome face means nothing if the soul behind it is hollow.

Confidence without empathy turns into arrogance, and character without backbone feels dull.

The kind of woman who knows her worth wants balance, presence that commands the room, heart that respects it, and mind that sustains it.

So what do women value most?

A man who knows who he is and never needs to prove it.

[Anonymous]

I think it's a mixture of the 3 mainly character and self confidence. I mean too much self confidence can be perceived as arrogance, making a guy off putting. Someone can look good and be a s***ty person. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Telekinetic-Potato]

They value the perception that comes from these things playing together.

In other words, your character, appearance and confidence need to fit together in a way she can understand.

[mysteriousNicholas]

Surely appearance gets the eyes first 👁️ it's something I've always experienced before they even hear me open my mouth

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Absolutely character. Appearance, so-so.

Self confidence should match the person. I saw some people who got extreme self confidence and entitlement but didn't match their appearance. (I'm sorry for being blunt) 😩😂✌️

[McLlovin]

Lol i mean sometimes self confidence is all someone has to work with because sometimes they’re not considered attractive to most people. Got to give them some leeway

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

@McLlovin I got your point. All they need was balance. :)

[DishLady]

Most women will say character but very few nowadays stick around past the initial detection of chemistry to find out whether the guy's character is actually good or bad.

[loveyouoak]

Women always value character, men always value appearance.

[blackeagle007]

I doubt that. Many females say looks on a guy is important

[Jessica405]

Character and personality. He may be good looking, rich and be confident, but if his personality is crap, I could never live with him.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Depends on what you’re going for. If you want to fuck, self confidence is most important. If you want a relationship, character is most important. If it’s just business, appearances.

[Nikki1989]

Character and some self-confindence are a bonus. Appearance isn't as important as insecure men make it out to be.

[aceleon]

confidence is a character trait dude.

appearance but not in the way you use it.

[ShivversQuietly]

Character is what lasts, and informs the other two criteria.

[molly1997xxx]

it might be looks that initially draw me in, but after a while that stops to matter and it’s all about the personality

[Pohjolan]

Dating apps and sites have shown that looks is the most important factor.

[Anonymous]

It's ironic really.

Most Girls chose Character and most Confident Guys are playing a Character to get Sex.

[Sam2024]

Yes they do but it won’t save you if you look like mr Bean instead of Brad Pitt.

[Rosemaiden]

I watch how a man carries himself and then decide..

[Vevv123]

Character without a doubt 🥇

[Rangers]

Money trumps them all

[beefcakebradybatson]

They should most value a man's character.

[bunnyboo24]

Charachter

[Chazmatazz269]

Material wealth

[Anonymous]

Secure Attachment Styles

[ShyAndFun]

I like character

[CxnfusedPhia]

Character 100%