As truone16 said, looks draw you in, but ultimately personality makes you stay.
For the money part, most guys I meet have the same wealth overall, so I don't really know how big of a difference money makes because it's not a factor when dating one of my friends. Anyway, in long term, I don't think I could date a good-looking rich douche bag.
So I'd say, long-term dating wise :
personality>looks>money.
Yes, you'll see women going after good-looking douche-bags, women going after rich bastards, but in the end you would probably not want to date that kind of women. They are, after all, too superficial or gold-diggers. Even though those girls are the most visible ones, please don't put us all in the same boat :)
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For me, I prefer personality out of the 3 of these. No the others don't hurt but money is a material thing and as long as his taking care of his own, then cool. Looks...I would have to be at least partially attracted to him, but to be with someone completely for looks, I don't see a point. Vanity fades. I don't care how hot a guy is, if he's an A-hole, who wants to be with a jerk.
Basically, I'd rather go out and have fun with someone who can carry a convo and make me laugh than sit around looking at a cute face or have someone to "buy my love."
I know women who don't care if you look like a gremlin...as long as your pockets are fat.
I know some that are completely hung up on appearance...(must be this tall to ride this ride).
For me, it was important that the guy I ended up is smart and ambitious. I like having deep meaningful conversations. I didn't care if you have an a**hole personality, as long as he could give me a good mental f***.
They all say personality, but date a-holes in the hopes of changing him. They say looks next, but if he has a lot of money or a great personality then looks aren't as big of a deal. None of them will admit to money, but that guy who has the cash for fancy dinners, trips, and gifts always seems to have a hot girl, so you do the math... As usual, they don't really know what they want which is why we have a hard time firguring them out...
I'd say looks is the most important because if a guy has an amazing personality but she isn't that attracted to him then he makes a good friend. Looks make them notice you and then personality is what keeps them. For most I would guess money is just a bonus but there are some that really do go for the money but that's a smaller percentage that do that
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When I'm a teen I pick look and result torn out to be good looking guys are just jerks XD
Since I reach my 20 till the day I die :p a smart and matured decision surely PERSONALITY :p
Personality first and when I get attracted to personality I eventually will see that person getting cuter by the day lol no matter how ugly he is but the way you look at the person changes LOL OK I'm kinda weird probably :p and money is the last I wanna care..rich men are damn vain :p no offence meant :pDo women care more about a guys looks or personality or money?
Depends on the gal. This gal cares more about looks.
.but really women what is more important to you out of all and why.?
Looks is more important to me because:
- money while entertaining for me means nothing if the guy isn't hot
- personality is pretty much worthless as essentially guy's personality are the same and offer the same a d*ck that wants to bust a nutLooks first then personality and money last (often it can define a personality). I think personality is the most important because it is the deal breaker, a guys looks gets your attention but if he is the most vacant twit then the personality undoes the magic the looks create. Money isn't my main focus but if he has it then its a bonus!
Looks. Personality.
if I'm not attracted to him, but like his personality, I'm interested in him as a friend. if I'm attracted to him, and I don't like his personality, then I'm not interested in him period.
Money does not factor into it.personality, then looks, money being last.
I like a guy who can actually make me laugh, and has good conversational skills and just a good personality over all, that's what wins me over. If you're hot and have a sh*tty personality then of course I probably won't like you, if you have a ton of money but no personality then it doesn't really make me want to date you or anything.A lot of guys seem to insist we care more about looks or money, even though that makes NO sense. If what you want out of life is happiness, you're not going to be with someone you dislike as a person. The personality has to be there.
I think ultimately would be the personality. After all in the long run, it is more important how you can get along with him. But when during first meeting, I would say looks.
Most women marry into money and date after looks.
1 out of 4 women are good girls and marry and date into friendliness.
Truth hurts. And none of these women are telling the truth.Personality, I would rather be with a guy I could call my friend above all else.
Second place goes to looks, I would prefer to desire to sleep with him.
Money doesn't mean much to me if you have no friends to share it with.i would honestly say personality your rich...so what your hot...but your a mean and horrible youve got a great personality...and who gives a damn about anything else
All the woman on here picked personality. Well...looks like I'm screwed.
Looks attracts you personality keeps you interested and money is an added bonus
-Have children by the good looking bad boys
-Try to get the nice guys with money to raise them
Women tend to succeed on only one of these points.For genuine girls: looks = personality > money
For gold-digger/parasite girls: money = looks > personalityDepends on the age of the woman you ask and her desperation level to get whatever it is she wants (company, marriage, babies, etc).
I need all 3 but money is most important.I'd rather date a guy who can take me nice places and buy me nice gifts.yeah I said it and don't feel bad about the sh*t either.get mad lol
Personality. Money and looks are great too but after a while dealing with a douchebag just gets old.
They are going to go after all three. Come on, it's women we're talking about here.
I care more about his personality than his money or looks.
i would say personality because I LOVE funny men no matter how they look plus when you find someone with a good personality it kinda makes them look better to me personally.
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