Men: what is a weird thing you seem to experience with women throughout your life?

[ManOnFire]

Like I mean, do you ever have something in particular that happens with women that might be different from other guys and it's just so crazy? Like it's just your own unique experience?

The weird thing for me is that I always seem to meet women who I am not attracted to physically or sexually but they assume I want to smash them. And it's the women I do want to smash who don't think I want to! Bro like wtf?😂 So frustrating, I will never understand life lol

[dragoblack]

That being genuinely kind & considerate on dates, makes them lose all interest romantically; most women find a healthy relationship, with modern romance standards, boring & a turnoff; most of the women i have met, wants a strong, aggressive, & dangerous man that could kill them, but won't; most women find relationships incredibly boring if there isn't drama on a semi-daily basis; and most women don't want to put in the effort, to work past the trauma from abusive relationships, better themselves, mature emotionally, & work on themselves to get over their insecurities & petty reactions.

[ManOnFire]

All things I have seen as well, good stuff here. You are right, they don't want to work on their traumas or anything because women are typically not very introspective. They self-sabotage at a greater rate than men do.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@ManOnFire a lot of stare-bears in my lifetime 👀👀👀👁️👁️

"Lady, if you're gonna stare, at least talk to me" 😊🥳 I'm using the phrase women usually use on guys who just stare. I mean, if you're into me lady, don't just stare, talk to me lol (a parody of films I know) lol cough Patrick Bateman cough

[ManOnFire]

True that.

[Amy_Mi]

One recurring pattern women often pick up on energy more than words.

A man can say the right things, but if his intent, confidence, or attention doesn’t match, it’s immediately noticed.

They’ll respond to authenticity, not scripts, and it can be surprising how subtle actions carry more weight than grand gestures.

It’s a lesson in presence, charm is temporary, alignment is lasting.

[ManOnFire]

There is no lesson to be learned, it's about their own arrogant misperception. Meanwhile they give their bodies away to men whose intentions are not good. They happily accept this toxic energy yet wrongly perceive decent guys as preying on them.

[Amy_Mi]

Perspective matters, but so does consistency in energy.

Yes, some choices are personal, but patterns exist because energy, intent, and alignment are consistently noticed.

It’s not arrogance to recognize mismatched signals, it’s awareness.

Decency is often overlooked when presentation doesn’t match presence.

Acknowledging that isn’t blaming women, it’s clarifying how respect and authenticity are recognized and valued.

[DishLady]

That happens to a lot of us (the ones we like don’t feel anything and the ones we don’t happen to stick close).

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, for some reason women seem to act funny around me... Like they can get sort of stand-offish sometimes.. At least that's how it starts.. Be attracted to me and then either act like they want to friend zone me or pull away like we never talked.. I know part of it is them being overthinkers and neurotic by nature..

[ManOnFire]

I've experienced that standoffish thing too.

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, it can get pretty annoying of course..

[DishLady]

You’re approaching the wrong type of gal…

[Joshydavid25]

@DishLady That's the thing.. I really don't approach women for the most part.. It's just my observation into how a lot of women have acted around me.. Don't get me wrong, I've gotten love as well..

[DishLady]

It’s not about you really (meaning what you offer) but more who you choose to approach.

[Joshydavid25]

@DishLady Well this is not me approaching women.. I only approach women I know are at least attracted to me.. This is just me answering the question basically of my observation of the weird ways some women act around me..

[ManOnFire]

@DishLady It’s not about approaching, it's about how a girl acts even when a guy is doing/saying nothing to her.

[DishLady]

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[DryGermanGuy]

You think she is a happy, stable and well put-together woman, but after getting to know her and meeting her several times, she unravels and you stare into quite the abyss.

[ManOnFire]

I know exactly what you're talking about.

[Shiprex]

They're exceptionally sensitive and put way more stress on overthinking things.

[ManOnFire]

The overthinking things drives me fucking nuts, even with female friends. I have one right now in real life who is constantly stressing herself the fuck out by literally overthinking details 24/7 that she does not have enough information on.

[Shiprex]

Yeah it's some kind of modern day strong independent stressed tf out condition.

[AgentG111]

For me they never believe my real age because I look younger than I am.

[ManOnFire]

I experience that too. A lot of people still think I'm in my 20s.

[AngryCarl2]

Women never get where I'm coming from. Usually I want to get to know them and they think I just want to smash.

[DavyJ]

They suddenly become emotionally sterile and non-existent when you tell them you’re not their personal expenses account.

[Anonymous]

they claim to want equality until it no longer favors them

[Jamie05rhs]

"And it's the women I do want to smash who don't think I want to!"
Wait, isn't that a good thing? I mean, isn't that the goal? Because I thought that was the goal.

[ManOnFire]

Well, if I'm really into a chick I want her to know it, but the ones I want to smash don't think I'm attracted to them like that.

[Jamie05rhs]

@ManOnFire Again, that's a good thing. If she knows that you like her, then she will get a big head and she will lose attraction for you. That's the way female psychology works.

[ManOnFire]

Yeah, you are right about that.

[Ariesman81]

Ever notice that if you ask them to point at Me, they always point at You?

[YTuber417]

That women are driven by an infantile narcissism - yet, I still love women.

[robocop666]

I experience behaviour that other men do not as I am good looking.

[ManOnFire]

🤣🤣Well, at least you're honest

[queenofcardio]

Haha I can relate

[Anonymous]

Being friend-zoned all the time.

[exitseven]

nah, i am pretty boring.