Guys, this is a clear concise summary of most of your problems with women, agreed?

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That seems unlikely, at a glance it sounds like some Andrew Tate junk.

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Not really. It's just saying a lot of men are clueless in social situations and lack maturity. Stop behaving like thirsty insecure little puppies and start behaving like grown men. Learn how to say no once in a while. Have some respect for yourself or no one else will.

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How about the "don't take any disrespect" part? "First time is the last time", or whatever?

But, yes, learning to say no and speak your mind is important. But don't do it as a game or a trick to manipulate people, just be honest.

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It's just saying to not tolerate disrespect. From anyone. Don't be a wussie. What's wrong with that?

First time = last time. If you let people disrespect you it can quickly set the pattern of the relationship. So call them out every time. There is no "next time". That's being a coward. If you lose them as a friend or girlfriend, so be it. Put yourself first. Have some self respect. Or you'll be everyone's doormat.

I don't see where any of that as Andrew Tate nuttery.

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Well, the video's not working for me, so I probably shouldn't comment any further.

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LOL, the video is just 30 seconds of a piano playing classical music while the bullets points in the still image are displayed on the screen. There is nothing else to see.

Yeah, maybe stop commenting.

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I thought about it a little longer, and what worried me is the "disrespect" and "First time = last time".

That's fine, if you're a reasonable person who can take a joke, or if you're going to just break it off if you feel "disrespected". It's not at all fine if you can't take a joke and your idea of "last time" is to make sure she never does it again by putting the fear of, well, you, into her.

I just think it could be worded better so as not to give the latter sort the slightest justification.

"Don't take any disrespect, end the relationship the first time."

Other than that, it's not bad advice. It's not the end of the world to end a relationship on reasonable terms, and it's actually healthy. On the selfish side, being known among a group of women for not being a nutter is usually helpful.