If you and a girl stop talking because of something you did and she comes back on her own power, what does that mean and what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[Nikki1989]

It means she has processed her hurt, weighed the value of the relationship against the mistake, and decided that the connection is worth the risk of being hurt again. It is usually a foolish move for a woman to make.

[Anonymous]

I've done this and usually because I miss them

[Asker]

Even if you never dated?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. I used to have unhealthy relationships. I think its called trauma bonding.

[Asker]

When you came back was you giving the guy another chance?

[Opinion Owner]

We gave eachother another chance... but I must say it was pretty toxic lol

[Asker]

That's how it usually is unless someone changes something.

I never looked at it like that. I didn't know her coming back was her giving me another chance

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you can make both things happen... letting her come back and then changing something within your relationship

[Asker]

I never changed anything because I didn't know why she came back

[Opinion Owner]

Im saying you should change the way you handle eachother... you said you had a Fight that you caused and she came back.
She probably came back because of her feelings for you but make sure you treat eachother with love and respect

[Opinion Owner]

And I don't know why she came back you should ask her for sure tho

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Apologize and pray