If you and a girl no longer work together and she reaches out to you, does she want to resume friendship?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

she more than likely wants another chance at you because nobody else wanted her selfish ass , so do yourself a favor and do not let her back into your life , if you do, you will be digging your own grave when you realize she was just using you until something better comes along , Only stay with a girl that doesn't leave your side, that doesn't need space from you, or needs to take a break from you , Girls' that do that , are selfish people that are only looking for what they can receive from someone without giving in return. A good girl is a girl that stands by you no matter what hardships you face together. Never be a convenience to anyone , be a priority

[jahaims]

It would depend on the context of what/why she reached out obviously

[Abbycado]

I would think so.

[Asker]

Can I ask her to hang out or do I have to keep it to chatting?

[Abbycado]

You can ask to hang out. No guarantees she wants to right away without catching up.

[Asker]

Of course. How long should we catch up before I ask?

[Abbycado]

I mean, if you catch up with each other quickly, no sense in not asking soon. I don’t see the harm in asking after you feel you both did that enough. Could be an hour of talking.

[Asker]

I see what you're saying. The thing is we caught up and spent days texting and occasionally face timing. Did I communicate something indirectly by not asking her to hang out?

[Abbycado]

I wouldn’t assume that.

[Asker]

I mean like by spending days catching up and not bringing up hanging out she would think I don't want to hang out?

[Abbycado]

If it were me, I would not take it to mean that. You’re overthinking this.

[Asker]

What part am I overthinking?

[Abbycado]

That she isn’t going to want to hang out because you spent a few days talking.

[Asker]

You don't think if she wanted to hang out she would have brought it up?

[Abbycado]

Did you?

[Asker]

I didn't

[Abbycado]

My point.

[Asker]

Okay I see. But aren't girls more proactive or they wait?

[Abbycado]

Why does she have to ask? Why can’t you?

[Asker]

I thought girls make the plans

[Abbycado]

God, @HollyK21 it is the same fuckwit as last time.

[HollyK21]

Yep, this nonsense isn’t actually happening anymore. He thinks reposting and constantly referring to it in present tense makes it still relevant when it’s not. He needs to move the fuck on and stop bothering us with it.

[Anonymous]

Duh...

[Asker]

Can I ask her to hang out or do I have to keep it to chatting?

[Opinion Owner]

I think you can do whatever you're comfortable with doing

[Asker]

Would she see it as coming out of nowhere?

[Opinion Owner]

I doubt it

[Asker]

Would it be kinda expected if I was interested?

[Opinion Owner]

Does she know you're interested? If yes then she could be hoping...

[Asker]

I'm not sure. I know when we worked together she knew I had a crush on her

[Opinion Owner]

Its possible if she liked you she could of asked you to hang out... thats what most girls may do. But some will just open the door for him like say hi and stuff and maybe flirt.

[LiamS95]

Most likely.