Do you think abortion is wrong in this situation?

[Anonymous]

Why do you think abortion is wrong if the reason why is because the girl had an abortion because she wasn’t “ready” for a baby and they weren’t living together? He wanted the baby but she had an abortion anyway. Does this make her selfish?

[Anonymous]

Yes she was selfish. If she knew this why did she engage in unsafe sex? Why did she engage in sex at all? A lot of women need to be held accountable for their actions, this being one of them. To say her body her choice is a hunch of bs. There’s always a way out for women to escape responsibility. But if the man doesn’t want to have a child cause he’s not ready but she keeps it, legally he’s forced to provide for that child through the court system. One is ok but the other is punished, whether through wage garnishments or going to jail. If it’s her body her choice then it should be the same for selective services. W that mentality a lot of people shouldn’t be able to vote on a lot of things. You don’t have kids you shouldn’t be able to vote on those topics. You’ve never served in the military, then you shouldn’t be allowed to vote on things like that.

[OneViewpoint]

Sure, she's selfish. She made a bad choice getting knocked up. And now she's terminating the pregnancy for her own convenience. She may be a real asshole. But it's still her body her choice. And the rest of us have a choice regarding whether we want to hang out with someone like that.

So if you force her to carry the baby to term, are you, with your religious righteousness, gonna be there 24X7, day and night for the life of that child? Are you gonna take on the economic burden to the tune of $250,000 to raise that kid? Or maybe you think "society" should pick up the tab. Then fuck off.

People are entitled to make their own decisions. And they are entitled to live with their own bad decisions for the rest of their lives. You don't get to tell everyone else how to live their lives. Get over it.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Nope, there’s no reason to force motherhood on herself and if that man was doing it, he was not meant to be her partner anyway. The universe was doing her a favor by showing her that so she could leave him guilt-free.

[aceleon]

selfish? yes.

wrong? not unless you are religious, or else you are a nihilist and literally nothing is wrong.

[Asker]

Why is it selfish?

[aceleon]

well maybe because it was his kid too?

[Nikki1989]

Her body, her choice. End of story.

[loveyouoak]

No, that means you're not ready to be a mother. An unwanted baby shouldn't be born. You're definitely not selfish.

[AngryCarl3]

Her body, her choice. It's not for me to judge.

[In_Trance]

why did she have unprotected sex if she wasn't ready?

[Imjustagirl1520]

Women have needs🤷‍♀️

[In_Trance]

They need to accept responsibility for their actions

[Imjustagirl1520]

And that equals having to take care of a child? women dont WANT abortions.

[ShadowSKiller]

I think this should be done through mutual agreement between the two sides.

[Asker]

What if the guy wants it and the girl doesn’t and has an abortion anyway?

[ShadowSKiller]

Because abortion is a very sensitive topic, it should be handled without conflict.

[_piotr]

That makes her child murderer.

[Asker]

How?

[_piotr]

Because she killed an innocent baby in her womb. That is abortion.