Will a girl wait for me to initiate in person plans or she will do it herself?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

Why should she wait for you? Why don't you make plans now? If you wait, maybe she will make plans . . with someone else!

[Asker]

Why won't she make plans with me? Is she not interested enough?

[Cyfris]

Most won't but some will. When in doubt just ask her out!

[Asker]

I understand that the man usually asks, but I wanted her to ask because then I know she definitely wants to go out.

[Cyfris]

When your plan is someone else has to do something you need another plan my guy.. You have no control over other people only yourself. Live your life for you and not what other people want. If she doesn't want to go out she can say no. Time to just nut up young one and bite the bullet.

[slatyb]

If you want a date, ask for one. Or else watch her with other men.

[queenofcardio]

Either is possible. We don't know her.

[Asker]

I was saying in general

[queenofcardio]

Everyone is different. Both options are still possible. You can initiate the plans if you want.

[Asker]

I know I can but I thought if a girl wanted to hang out she would do it

[Anonymous]

We can't read minds.

[Asker]

True but would you initiate plans yourself?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Just make the plans

[Asker]

Why won't she make the plans?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Doesn’t matter why. Do you want to do something with her or not?

[Asker]

I do but if she does it I know she actually wants to see me

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If you’re going to sit and wait for someone to tell you to do something, you’re not going to do anything. Take initiative like a man or don’t.

[Asker]

I'm only 22. Is it expected that I take the initiative?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

No, you’re expected to take the initiative because neither of you are communicating and sitting on your ass isn’t going to make anything happen when you want something to happen