Is it okay to spend my birthday weekend at a beach house with my male best friend?

[TheLovelyWoman]

My birthday is less than a month away. My husband will be out of town during my birthday and won’t be able to celebrate it with me. My best friend wants to celebrate my birthday with me. He will rent a beach house for him and I to spend the weekend together. He knows how much I love the beach. I really want to go.

[Genie23]

Girl... I knew it was you without even checking your username. Not sure if that’s a good or bad thing, considering I don’t even know you… but I’ve seen enough of your questions to recognise you. 😅

Of course, it isn't okay... Because we know what would happen next...

[Genie23]

GaG messed up my gif again... even after all these months 😩 I guess I'll just share the video version instead.

https://youtu.be/UVcyrsL20Ro?si=yY-F93-53ooCwZWY

[TheLovelyWoman]

Girl nothing will happen…. lol

[Genie23]

https://i.giphy.com/21S35iv1C67ns2g458.webp

Sorry, but I already know you’re going to share what happened on the trip in your next question... like how naughty you were, and how much you loved it. 😭

[CriminallyInsane]

What do you care if anyone tells you it's ok or not? You're going to do it anyway and it probably wouldn't rank in the top 500 things you've done that aren't ok.

[DryGermanGuy]

I wrote it before, she doesn’t ask questions, she uses GaG as an adult themed „Dear Diary…“. 🤷‍♂️

[CriminallyInsane]

@DryGermanGuy yeah, there's definitely a reason she never seems to come back to discuss any further with any of the answers. Maybe she doesn't even read them...

[Master_Debator]

I'm glad I read this...1 part validation for my own answer, but 3 parts understanding and clarity just from the quick chat between you and @DryGermanGuy... the other MHO here makes the pattern really clear.

[Master_Debator]

We've all seen this scenario in porn. Why are you asking us, you're going to do it anyways.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Is it ok to fill a beach ball with air?

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode messy relationship situations without losing your mind or your heart 💕

Going with your male best friend, alone, to a beach house for a whole weekend while your husband’s away is a big emotional red flag. Even if nothing “happens,” it definitely looks like lovebombing territory and could damage trust.

If you wouldn’t be 100% okay with your husband doing the same with another woman, don’t do it. Invite more friends, shorten it, or celebrate another way. Your marriage comes first, gorgeous.

[NoDecision]

So? Celebrate your birthday early so he can spend it with you. But I'm guessing this is just a troll question, right?

[AviatorTom]

Ask your husband if it's okay. I think I know what he will say.

Weekend with another guy at a beach house on the beach, where you both will be wearing skimpy clothes. What would possibly happen?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Why dont you just go out of town with your husband and make it a mini vacation. Why is your first thought to spend time with a man other than your husband. Your a married woman. You asked god to bless a union with and your husband. Does that mean anything to you?

[Abbycado]

Is your husband ever home? Every day you post some bullshit post about cheating. @Agape93 lol

[Agape93]

Because her husband doesn't exist. Dudes obsessed with this cheating shit

[TheLovelyWoman]

No. He travels often for work.

[Abbycado]

Yeah, right. We know you’re a guy by your ridiculous posts.

[OneViewpoint]

Sure go fuck your friend for your birthday. Your husband is likely doing the same thing wherever he's going.

[Summeroflove]

Sounds like you should stop with this cheating fetish. Before you get a STD

[Bricealan]

@thelovelywoman Is he going to play 'hide-the-salami' over the weekend? 😁😁😁

[soe11]

• If your husband doesn't mind then why not.
• Nothing wrong in current society.

[Jerre]

Think it depends on how much you are looking forward to the sex you will be having.

[PolarPoint]

OMG. That's really not nice.

[Jennz6]

That’s cheating on your husband

[Anonymous]

Que the porn music!!!

[Anonymous]

It's completely ok.

[krin_m]

you are an adult. Do what you want.

[dudeinohio]

Not a good idea.