Boyfriend wants to go to a strip club for his birthday with me and his friends. Is it weird for me to go?

[Anonymous]

He said his boss suggested they drink at a strip club for his birthday. He told his boss I might not be comfortable with it. I told him I'd be okay with going but now I'm having second thoughts. It'll be my first time at a strip club. Will my boyfriend lose respect for me if I go? I don't know if it would be awkward for me to be there since I don't drink

[Lonewulf57]

I think the question is more "will you be okay with seeing your guy ogling, and sometimes more, another woman?" Are you going to feel like he is cheating on you, or will you get jealous by seeing him attracted to a woman who is curvier, etc. than you?

Your boyfriend will only lose respect for you if he sees you getting along with the women better than him. Warning, most strippers are at least bisexual, if not lesbian. In other words you might be more competition than he is ready to handle.

[unwokewoke]

Don't go. You don't want to go and it's not your scene so you will be in a disadvantaged position where anything could happen and for what? Nothing good for you in this.

[Asker]

What do you mean anything could happen?

[Daniela1982]

Would he go with you to a male strip club and watch you giving a stripper a blow job?

[AndrésC64]

Whoa. Who said anything about blowjobs? Do you think he's going to be eating pussy at the strip club?

[Daniela1982]

@AndrésC64 Female strip clubs are more highly regulated and men can't touch the girls as far as I know. Females going to male strip clubs not so much.

[AndrésC64]

So? Nobody said anything about blowjobs or eating pussy, except for you.

[Daniela1982]

@AndrésC64 so take your girlfriend to a strip club then. She may like the girls. I just don't see going to one of those places as being particularly good for a relationship. All it does is get men to lust after other women which is certainly not good for a relationship. Because then your girl is thinking you don't find her attractive.

[Avicenna]

I'd imagine that it would be very awkward for you. Do you trust him there?

[AndrésC64]

You should go. Strippers love to see girls in strip clubs and the girls that go seem to have a good time.

[Waldoe]

go and have Fun (pretend, if you have to) take a lot of $1 bills for tipping, flirt with the dancers... he will Love it...

[DepLogic2]

Personal preference. Couples go all the time and they have couples dances. Just depends if you are the jealous type

[Wise4myage]

No, not at all. And I say go for it.

[Anonymous]

If you're insecure. Dont go

[nawtee_me]

not at all, go and have a good time...

[Kal17]

Just tell him the truth

[Jmmmfi4]

Lots of girls go