Girls, what kind of empathy or understanding do you have for shy single guys looking for love?

[Anonymous]

[Nikki1989]

Not my problem. Those men should get their shit together.

[Asker]

Imagine openly admitting you have very little empathy for lonely people and thinking that makes you look good.

[Agape93]

Nine. I don't have much empathy in general

[Agape93]

None *

[Asker]

Saying ‘none’ with pride doesn’t make you honest, it just makes you sound cold and self absorbed.

[Agape93]

I didn't say it with pride to to show honesty. You asked, u answered. Idc how you take it

[Asker]

If you truly didn’t care, you wouldn’t keep replying trying to defend how people interpreted your answer.

[Agape93]

Its called explaining.. I care if I'm understood, I don't care if someone gets laid or in a relationship

[Asker]

You say you care about being understood, yet you openly admit you don’t care how lonely, rejected or emotionally affected other people are. That is literally what lacking empathy looks like. Being blunt or “honest” doesn’t magically make it less cold or self absorbed.

[Agape93]

You do realize I stated from the start I lack empathy, right?

[Asker]

Saying “I lack empathy” doesn’t automatically excuse acting cold toward people. Most people with low empathy still understand basic compassion and don’t go out of their way to dismiss others struggling with loneliness or relationships. The fact you keep defending it so hard makes it sound less like honesty and more like pride in not caring.

[Agape93]

You can't have pride in not feeling something. You're also not entitled to any kind of reaction or sentiment. Real or fake.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Very little

[Asker]

Pretty ugly attitude toward people who are already struggling socially.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

As someone who also struggles socially, if you’re going to blame shyness for your loneliness, you quite literally have no one to blame but yourself

[Asker]

I could literally say the same thing about you, But im not going to because i don't lack empathy especially for somone who has told me they are struggling aswell.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Nice virtue signaling. I’m not lonely.

[Asker]

You're proving my point.

The question wasn't "whose fault is loneliness?" It was "how much sympathy do women have for shy guys?"

Saying "it's your own fault" doesn't answer the question. It just explains why you don't have much sympathy.

And if someone admits they're struggling socially, most people don't respond by telling them they're entirely to blame. They can acknowledge personal responsibility while still having empathy.

The fact that you're not lonely doesn't change that. It just means you're judging a problem you don't currently have to deal with.