Do you think she is sincere?

[Anonymous]

So something I sometimes don't get is why when I make new friends the connection just fades.

For example, I met this girl and she seemed to like me we talked for like an hour after. In the end when I hugged (asked her if she is a hugger) she said let's exchange numbers.

But when I messaged her 2 weeks later - she was lukewarm. When i said if she was busy that's okay but lmk if she ever wanted to grab coffee (thinking she was lukewarm as I was disturbing her) she said for sure but i'll let it finish etc.

Now the thing is I studied for a super intense exam. I get how busy it can be. But her exam is like 8 weeks away. Mine even though I was super busy I met very less with my friends but didn't really brush them off I was super like I'd love to meet but I can't. And I would meet them like once because you're human you need a bit of social outlet too.

I'm not hurt she can't meet. I'm hurt she's not excitedly saying but after it's over let's definitely catch up! etc.

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Let it finish as in she's saying let her exam finish

[RachyRach]

A lot of the time people get caught up in the moment and when they're not in that moment they don't feel the same way

[Asker]

Hmm I know she's not obligated to be friends.

But I was kind of hurt. Do you think she handled that well

[RachyRach]

She didn't. But I think you need to be strong about it and not give in should she suddenly show interest. Cos then she'll feel like she can come and go as she pleases.

[Asker]

Can I message you? Will show you what she said exactly. I'm confused if I'm over-reading into it or she was just making excuses

[RachyRach]

Yup of course

[Asker]

Messaged!

[Asker]

Whoops I noticed I have to follow you first. Followed

[Iron_Man]

is this just a friend or somebody you are having a crush on?

[Asker]

Just a friend

[Iron_Man]

Oh ok