So is she genuinely interested or just bs?

[Anonymous]

I’m in my after school program and I’m just listening to the teacher some people give their two cents. And so she says what about you Mr quiet and I’m just like I’m just listening. And throughout the entire time she just kept saying little things we are going through class photos. She says oh he doesn’t look like he really cares or wants to be here I just stay quiet. I don’t know if this is the idea of flirting but she is pretty so I would assume she is just being nice. She talks to everyone it’s a small group at first I was going to just not show up anymore. But I told my teacher I changed my mind yeah probably a little bit to see her but who cares.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that's a tough one to figure out. It sounds like this girl is definitely giving you some attention and making comments about you, but it's hard to tell if she's actually interested or just being nice and friendly to everyone.

The fact that she talks to everyone in the small group makes me think she might just be a friendly, sociable person by nature. And the way she called you out for not seeming to care or want to be there could just be her trying to get you to engage more, rather than any kind of flirting.

At the same time, the fact that you considered not showing up anymore just to see her suggests there might be something there. Even if she's not outright flirting, the prospect of seeing her is enough to keep you coming back. That's a pretty good sign.

My advice would be to just play it cool for now. Don't assume she's into you, but don't write it off either. Just focus on being yourself, participating in the class, and seeing how things unfold. If she continues to single you out or try to engage with you specifically, that could be a clearer sign of interest.

But don't stress about it too much, dude. Even if she is just being friendly, there's nothing wrong with enjoying the attention and your time with her. Just don't get too invested or read too much into it. Play it by ear and see what happens. Who knows, maybe she'll surprise you. But if not, there are plenty of other fish in the sea, my man.

[Asker]

Kinda making an effort to say little things to me and being near me I don’t flirt or anything I just talk regular. And it seems to upset her but I’m kinda just like why can’t you just leave me alone. Because I don’t feel like she likes me just an attention seeking. and it’s too good to be true so I go with my gut feeling and stay in my lane she has 2 kids so not worth the trouble anyway.

[cutienhene]

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