Not if she goes. If she’s dating another person then you’re putting her in a really bad position. You should not be pushing her to do that. You said that she was “talking” to somebody? I’m not sure what that means or how serious it is but I know that it would bother me if I was the guy she was talking to. If I found out she was going out on other dates well the two of us were supposed to be getting to know each other, I would end that relationship with that girl. As silly as it sounds, nobody wants to be part of a dating game. It really depends on how Serious your friend is with the person she’s talking to. If it’s serious at all then she shouldn’t go. It’s not fair to her, the guy she’s talking to or especially the guy that will be on the double date. He has no idea that the girl he’s going to meet is Not even planning to talk to him. And what if something good does happen? What if they to hit it onot even planning to talk to him. And what if something good does happen? What if they to hit it off? Then you’ve heard the relationship she did have that other guy. I wouldn’t mess around with it. ff? Then you’ve heard the relationship she did have that other guy. I wouldn’t mess around with it.
What does talking to another guy mean? That could mean a lot of different things.
If she’s seeing him romantically and trying to build a relationship that’s cheating. Sometimes there is kind of a gray area when someone isn’t exclusive yet. But it’s good to date one person at a time.
If she doesn’t want to go on a date with someone. She needs to be straightforward and just say it. Not be nasty about it. But just say. I’m sorry I’m not interested. But I’m sure there is plenty of women who would be
Why is your friend scared to see her date alone? A first date should consist of only the two planning to date so they can really see if they are into each other to make matters turn into a second date. You aren’t obligated to be a wing man for your friend
@ManOnFire Exactly. There is anxiety when meeting new people with some people and that’s fine, but not being one on one purposely eliminates the point of getting to know each other
First off, the guy she going on date with has zero confidence if he has to invite a friend. I would think the girl would find that completely unattractive but w/e.
To the guy who's friends with the girl, here's a glimpse of the future.. they guy and girl hit it off, they get in relationship, and you'll be the guy who has to hear all the crap he does that she needs to talk about with someone. Here's a better idea, tell her no
Loyal to her friend or loyal to the guy she’s talking to? She’s under no obligation to go on double date with her friend, so she would not be disloyal for declining. It doesn’t sound as if she and the guy she is talking to are dating. If they’re not dating, she can date without being disloyal to him.
Loyalty is binary. You're either loyal or you're not. There is no grey area. If you're with someone, you don't go on dates with someone else. Even if it is just for fun.
What the blue girl should do is ask the guy she's talking to to come with her.
Ahh I see now. Well to put it simply, I don't think she's being disloyal here if she's coming along to give her friend some moral support. All she's really doing is third-wheeling at this point, which is completely fine and even normal. Her boyfriend need not worry
@Jamie05rhs okay? I still don't think that that's cheating if nothing's really going to happen. And if the other guy tries coming onto her, she can just tell him off. Like I said, for all she cares, she's only coming along to give her friend some company
@BullShark You're not being logical right now. What guy is going to go on a date unless he's looking to get something out of it? He's not there for platonic reasons. SHE may be coming with innocent intentions. But that doesn't mean HE is.
She’s fine. The talking phase isn’t the same as being exclusive, so it shouldn’t be seen as cheating. Too bad there isn’t a way for her to say she’s just there for you and not to date without sounding rude.
She's being a very good friend. Her guy friend could get the wrong idea if he saw her on a date with another guy. She's risking an argument and possibly a breakup for her friend
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