I have this chick I know from being at a golf course we both play at, she just joined this year and her parents play there. I noticed her all year staring at me and never coming to say anything, but would always stare. About 2 months ago I broke the ice and started conversation, got to know her, added on Snapchat, followed on social Media all the basic stuff. As I said, she has been extremely shy, but I have heard from other people she was extremely interested in me, including her parents who "highly approve" of me. 2 nights ago she was having some drinks and we danced, sang karaoke, talked for hours, I can tell 1000% her interest is there. Had 4 people come up and said she mentioned to them she is in "awe" of me. Mind you, this female is 24 and smoking, I am 31 and about 300 pounds, not something I am used to. I asked for her number and she gave it. She mentioned she wanted "A night out with me". I texted her 1 time so far and she has not responded, it has been a day, she has also stopped snap chatting, we used to all day long. Just trying to get a sense here from others what is going on. I like this girl, she is my type and honestly it's the first time I have heard from multiple people that someone is interested in me.
what do I do here to not mess this up and hopefully get a date going or something. Her birthday is coming up next week and I would love to take her on a 1st date somewhere, but with the no text response and leaving me in the dust since we had a fun night, I'm lost.
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Chill bro. She likes you. Maintain interest.
Don't stress about social media and texts because they don't mean anything. And a day also means nothing. If it is meant to be, it will be. If you freak out over nonsense then it won't be.
Have you asked her out? Face to face? That would be a useful step.
Thanks for the reply. Yes I have told her I would love to take her out in person. Got her number after that.
Update on this. Fell through, didijtnreply back after the first text I sent and is awkward in person for some reason. Appreciate the feedback!
It is particularly difficult to say if this is hilarious or just downright clueless.
We were all clueless once.
Because flirting isn't a serious relationship. Everyone hooks up with her and she moves on to a new flirter.