What do I do. Getting Ghosted?

[Anonymous]

I have been texting this girl, know each other from a local place. We vibe very well in person, danced together, talked last week.

She gave me her number and asked me where I am taking her.. I proposed a date idea for next week and ever since then she has ghosted me, I have not followed up since that text 3 days ago. What should I do? I feel like I did the right think by waiting a day or 2 to text her and the vibe is there in person.

[HollyK21]

What’s the context of seeing her in person? I mainly ask because it sounds like some sort of club and if there’s drinking involved then unfortunately she can be privy to saying things one night that she probably wouldn’t have under sober circumstances. In any case, I don’t think there’s harm in following up about the date, but if she doesn’t reply again then you have your answer.

[Asker]

We are both members at a golf course together. Drinking was involved. Dancing, karaoke together, I walked away for a minute and she came over and started feeling up my chest. Asked for her number and got it, waited a couple days. Texts were flirty and asking when we are going out. I proposed a date and ghosted ever since

[HollyK21]

Gotcha, so there was some texting after getting her number, then it stopped once you asked about the date. I don’t think you lose anything by following up, just something like “hey, hope your day is going well. I just wanted to follow up about that date, not sure if you saw my text the other day or not but if my suggestion doesn’t work, that’s totally fine. I’d love to set something up though whenever you’re free, the day is still available for me”. You can word it however you want of course, just a low pressure message will do.

[Nikki1989]

Move on; you are not worthy. I wonder why so many anons on here can't take the hint.

[NathanDavis]

go get in your trick... drive there, and meet her in person

[MrChinaski]

Talk to her. It's been working for men for 300,000 years now.

[WhitneySnow]

Try talking to her in person again

[Anonymous]

Move on from the clown

[In_Trance]

Find someone else