Why do I feel so jealous and less valuable than other girls?

[Anonymous]

I am insanely jealous of other girls; I envy their beauty, their energy, their hair, eyes, hands, the polish on their nails, the clips in their hair, their accessories, their clothes, their friends, their boyfriends, their families—I even envy every single conversation they have with anyone at all.
I’m about to turn 21, and I will carry the regret of the things I couldn’t do at 16, 17, 18, 19, and 20 on my shoulders for a lifetime; you don’t carry such a heavy burden, so don’t tell me to go to therapy.

[Anonymous]

Focus on yourself and improving yourself. What other people have is not stopping you from having what you want.

[Asker]

So, will what I've lost come back?

[jahaims]

Parents didn't teach you how to emotionally regulate in a healthy way. Jealousy is an immature emotion that stems from an unhealthy ego.

[Iron_Man]

Are you jealous of Sydney Sweeney? Why don’t you go to the gym and feel better about yourself

[Asker]

I don't have the money for the gym.

[Iron_Man]

Well, you can do calisthenics at home. Pull
Ups push-up, stretching, walking, running all kinds of stuff. Squats.

[Anonymous]

You're valuable to your boyfriend. Relax you'll get one no problem.

[Anonymous]

Why? There’s Always going to be someone who’s better than the best

[ChicoFromThe305]

Forget therapy someone should just lock you up 😂