Is this college girl actually interested in me or just being friendly?

[Anonymous]

I met a girl in college last Friday, and we ended up talking for almost three hours afterward. She asked to exchange IG, and I’ve been wondering whether she’s interested or just outgoing.

So, today, I had a class with her so messaged her asking if she wanted to sit together in class, and she replied “sureeeee.” After the two-hour class, we got food together and spent another two hours talking. I paid, and she said something along the lines of getting the next one.

It was really fun again. She also joked that she’d tried to stalk my Instagram but couldn’t because I barely post anything. But the thing is I don’t even know if she has a boyfriend. I’ve gotten my hopes up before only to find out someone was taken, so that’s probably making me overthink it.

Would you see this as a promising start? Would you ask if she’s seeing anyone next time, or just keep getting to know her? I’d like to find out, but I’m nervous about making my interest obvious this early.

[NathanDavis]

actually... all of these clear signs of interest and her being quite forward about it... indicate that, unfortunately... she does not have any interest at all... none whatsoever

too bad, man... sucks

[Nikki1989]

'She asked to exchange IG.'

Well then, she obviously must want you!

[Asker]

I know exchanging IGs alone doesn’t mean anything. I was asking more about the whole interaction lol.

[WhitneySnow]

She’s almost certainly interested, but that doesn’t mean she isn’t taken

[Asker]

Yeah, that’s exactly what I’m unsure about. I’ve gotten my hopes up before only to find out someone had a boyfriend, so I’m probably overthinking that part. Thanks for your input!

[WhitneySnow]

Well, although I don’t encourage chasing someone who’s taken, bear in mind that a boyfriend is not a marriage, and if she’s showing this much interest in you, she’s almost certainly unhappy in her relationship (assuming she even has one, which is purely speculation).

[Anonymous]

College girls aren't nice. She either interested or she playing with you.

[Billlewis]

The best way to find out is to ask her.

[Asker]

You’re right, I’m just nervous about making my interest obvious this early. I’ll try to ask next time. thanks!