Where Are The Pick-Me Girls?

[Anonymous]

The majority of the current batch of young women are influenced way too much by other women. People have also somehow forgotten what it means to be "strong" or "independent". Think about it - who is really strong and independent? The majority of women that hide like sheep among the group so as to avoid being labelled a "pick-me" OR the women that step out of line by actually thinking for themselves and deciding that they'll act the way they want to act despite the name-calling? Don't let their rhetoric and lies steer your life.

I'm not even saying it's necessarily good or bad to be strong and independent as a woman - what I AM saying is that it is good to think for yourself. You have a brain, so use it. There will be backlash from the social conditioning you've been through and from other people (women and even some men), but you can win.

So I'll ask again: WHERE ARE THE PICK-ME GIRLS?

I am a pick-me girl

I am not a pick-me girl

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To all of the women out there that seem to be infuriated by me uplifting pick-me girls:

I am an ANON, please act accordingly. Stop trying to tear down the good women and I will stop attacking you. Stop spreading lies and I will stop attacking you.

[GothEgg]

A "pick me girl" is an internet slang term for a woman who devalues other women to gain male approval and validation.

To be honest I've been called a pick me girl. Its just another device to tear women down related to jealousy or not validating how other women choose to live their lives.

[Asker]

Consider it a badge of honor if you must.

[LazerBean]

Plenty of pick me girls on social media fishing for clicks, or following groups of boys around and insisting that they are just "one of the guys" even though none of the guys will say it lol

[Asker]

So are you better than them?

[LazerBean]

Are you?

[Asker]

Are you better than them or not? It sounds to me that you do not approve of what they're doing for some reason.

[LazerBean]

Lol Yes I think I'm better than a simp. Do you think you are?

[Asker]

You didn't answer my question. I didn't ask if you were better than a simp, I asked if you were better than the "pick-me" girls. If you think they are being simps for actually being attractive to men and providing things that create mutually beneficial relationships, then you're at fault - mutual benefit is the only logical way for romantic relationships (and many other relationships) to work well.

I have no idea whether I'm better or worse than them with respect to any important metric since I am a man so I'm not in competition with them in the same way you might be. (I assumed you were aware that I was asking whether you're both a better option for a man than they are AND are also operating in a more rational way by doing whatever they aren't.)

[LazerBean]

I did answer your question, a pick me girl is a female simp. A simp is a male pick me. It seems you are having problems with word definitions, a common problem for you liberals.

And no I was not aware that you were asking that because you didn't communicate it. But yes I am certainly a better partner than someone who does things for the validation of the opposite sex. Those are what we call boy crazy girls and girl crazy boys, and those are the ones that tend to be ran through and cheaters.

And of course you know if you're better than a simp, no need to lie. You don't know if you're better than someone who lives for the validation of the opposite sex? Don't be ridiculous

[Asker]

"Pick-me" is an informal term so for you to assume there is one unambiguous definition is ridiculous. I am also not a liberal. I agree with you, and always have agreed, if you're saying definitions should be fixed.

You are assuming I agree that "pick-me girls" are female simps - I do not. They provide things that I want and I will provide things that they want in return, provided that their wants are reasonable (which they almost always are compared to these women that do all of that makeup and nail polish stuff to present themselves as something they're not). Your question is still ambiguous. In what way are you asking if I am better?

[LazerBean]

It is irrelevant if you agree or not, society has already placed a definition on that term and therefore your usage of it is either intentionally or unintentionally incorrect.

And if the question is ambiguous, then it is because you have made it ambiguous since it is the exact same thing you are asking me. But since you are playing dumb about that as well, I will correct your mistake and be more specific. Are you or are you not a better partner than someone who seeks attention from the opposite sex?

[Asker]

You are just spewing stuff now trying to sound logical. I agree that "definitions should be fixed". That is not a definition. Of course I shouldn't be surprised that the one who can't see rhetoric is also blind to other things placed right in front of them. It is relevant that I agree because YOU claimed that I was having problems with word definitions. Please also take the time to read or recall what YOU wrote before you start spewing nonsense. It's not a good look.

If the question is ambiguous, then it is ambiguous. So clarify. I clarified my question to you, and you did not assume the same meaning of my question that I had in mind, therefore you must also clarify your question, otherwise there will still be ambiguity. So you are making a separate mistake, not correcting mine, by assuming that I knew which version of the question you were asking.

To answer: I am not better than someone who seeks attention from the opposite sex on the basis of them seeking attention. Attention-seeking is not inherently bad. You probably believe it is bad since you are in competition with other women, which is probably why you even added your opinion under my question in the first place. I value women who provide things I want, e. g. attractive bodies, attractive character, selfless acts. The desire for attention provides an incentive for these women to bring me things of value, and I will ideally reciprocate. Why on Earth would I want a scavenger woman? Provide something of I value or get out.

[Asker]

I actually made another mistake! I assumed you were Holly - my bad for the rhetoric comment.

[LazerBean]

Just like an average libtard to refuse to use the established definitions of words, twist around their meanings, and then then struggle to answer when their own line of logic is directed back at them 😂 I know your liberal mind probably doesn't even comprehend that, but if you are going to successfully continue LARPing as a non snowflake you are going to have to fix that. You have a good rest of your day, hoe 😇

[Asker]

Ah, you're a conservative! No wonder you're trying to so hard to make it known discreetly by calling me a liberal. It has become your whole personality. Be aware that there are people who aren't liberals and who aren't conservatives. Not everyone is desperate to be part of a group like you.

You're a conservative, yet you and your liberal female enemies both display this ugly behavior of throwing a tantrum simply because someone is undoing the hard work you've done to oust the pick-me girls. It seems to me that this is an issue common among women, regardless of ideology. Interesting.

You also did not address anything I said, so I will assume you know you're incorrect, so have a good day too.

[FreyaRed]

I'm not American and don't feel nuances of English language but in my perception it's "pick me" is a girl who farms male attention to impress other girls.

[HollyK21]

They’re probably too busy thinking for themselves to show up when you call them like a dog.

[Asker]

Look at this rhetoric: "call them like a dog". Its only purpose is too dissuade these girls from acting like rational human beings.

At least they understand the concept of actually giving gifts that the receiver values. Women like you only know how to take things of value and give things that YOU think the receiver should value according to whatever irrational logic you use.

[HollyK21]

It’s crazy how you managed to write 2 whole paragraphs totally missing the point. The dog analogy wasn't "rhetoric", it was a direct description of you expect women to just jump on command the second you snap your virtual fingers.

Also, turning a massive speech about "independent thinking" into a weird, bitter grievance about not getting the specific gifts you want is insane mental gymnastics. If you're THAT desperate for a present dude, just put a wishlist in your bio here next time instead of hiding behind this stupid, anonymous manifesto.

Oh and by the way, if you’re gonna lecture people on "rational logic," you might want to learn the difference between "to" and "too" first. It ruins the vibe.

[Asker]

Look at the definition of rhetoric and you will see that your dog statement was clearly rhetoric. This is not a complex issue.

Who said I expect women to jump at my command? I do not expect that to happen, but the ones that come forward (not "jump at my command" [rhetoric]) have my gratitude.

Look at you using rhetoric once again! "Weird, bitter grievance" - where's the grief? How is what I've said weird? Rhetoric via lies. I'm not surprised you don't understand that a gift can refer to anything given to someone else that you think they value. That can be many things, including acting in a way a guy wants you to act, not just material items. I am not desperate for a present, you probably are though, that's why you and your reptile squad of scavenger women have your long list of expectations and demands for money from men. Please do not project.

"Too" was a typo. Let me remind you that you don't know what rhetoric is so go check that out.

[HollyK21]

Since the option is there, I’m going to block you after this, so I might not even be able to reply anymore, but I’m curious to see if you’re exactly who I think you are, because if so then this whole “conversation” was pointless from the start. You post these topics targeting women with a total bias and zero interest in actually understanding our side. You’re always on the defense, always attacking us, and always trying to tear us down. Lucky for you, I actually have the knowledge to go toe to toe with you, but is it worth my time and energy? Absolutely fucking not. If I can realize that this quickly from a conversation, then I’m sure it’s a massive reason why you’re single and bitter IRL.

[AngryCarl3]

They already got picked.

[Asker]

Affirmative.

[Anonymous]

The internet is full of them.

[Asker]

Are you referring to the "instagram models"?