Some women shorter than me rejected due to my height yet multiple times taller women didn’t care… why?

[Danny_dan92]

Such a bizarre phenomenon. If anything I’d expect women taller than me to reject instantly for obvious reasons

[blueonblack22]

Just depends on the woman. Not all of them are the same.

Attraction isn’t a choice. You either have it for someone or you don’t (varying degrees). I learned to accept that years ago. Men too have the right to romantically reject a woman for any reason.

But the bigger issue nowadays is RESPECT. Unlike attraction respect is a choice. It has to with being considerate of the other persons position / feelings. If a woman wants reject a man who (respectfully / politely) approached her because he’s too short then fine.

But if she mocks him for being too short (which he has zero control over) than I have very serious problem with that. The best thing she can do is say “thank you for approaching me but truth is I’m just not interested” and leave it at that. Not cool to openly point something a man has no control over. Only exception is if a a man keeps pressing for the answer. But many women have no filter on that and it’s bullsh*t.

Men on the other hand are shamed by society for rejecting overweight women. But I’ve never in my life seen a man reject a woman and flat out verbally say “you are just too fat”. I know I’ve never said that before and I’ve never seen / heard another man be that cruel to a woman.

Not to say it hasn’t ever happened but still men are held to a higher standard on that. And more ironically unlike height being overweight is something a person can change (very difficult but possible).

[Nuclear_Warhead]

It's one of many factors. It's not purely about "good genes" because a lot of short men's sons will be taller than themsleves, you can be short if your recent ancestors were malnourished with otherwise good genes.

If it's largely about poor (and malnourished) man vs man capable of protecting and providing right now, then there are other ways to prove you can do that. I'm part Asian and a quarter of an inch shorter than 6 feet but i am constantly surprised at how many people call me tall. Sometimes called taller than people who are actually taller than i am.

I imagine that half of women who have a minimum height requirement, have this requirement not based on their own height but based on what the healthy range for a male is. A woman with unusual hormonal things going on during her puberty would be taller than the average man... she's not going to stay single until she finds a man 7% taller than her (average height gap) would she? Her genes don't even necessarily have tremendous height coded into them either, a lot of it is hormonal and environmental. Possibly it's like this. A lot of men want women with an ass he can grab. But if he happens to have a huge ass himself, that does not automatically make him want a woman with an ass even bigger.

The short women who rejected you, well, there's this thing, something along the lines of luxury creep. The more she has felt short in relarion to men the more the height gap could become part of her identity. I don't know I'm not a woman. And keep in mind a lot of men and women aren't emotionally doing well, "some" and "multiple" can be deceiving.

[Agape93]

Preferences. Personally idgaf, but im also tall sooo

[Danny_dan92]

See that’s my point 😂 it would make sense for tall women to be more picky with that kind of stuff

[Chazmatazz269]

Tall women have similar struggles as short guys; especially women over 5’10”. So they are likely to be more open minded about height differences than shorter women.

[valentina4eva]

maybee if taller women are taller than everyone they can’t really reject guys for being shorter than them?🤷🏻‍♀️ but idkk im not tall lol

[Staximus]

Because they have daddy issues and want some tall guy to make them feel secure and protected. I’ve had the same experience. Girls don’t understand that height has nothing to do with your ability to protect them.

[Anonymous]

Preferences are completely random from person to person.

[slatyb]

Why is not important. Pay attention to the women who are interested and ignore the women who aren't.

[LazerBean]

Maybe insecurity or something along those lines

[LazerBean]

A lot of taller girls don't like being tall bc they feel like men aren't as attracted to them, so they may also just be happy for the attention.

[queenofcardio]

Interesting.. They like what they like.

[MitTHRAWNuruodo000]

Women are confusing creatures 😂

[Anonymous]

Insecurity