She heard me say “I’m not texting anybody first anymore”… then texted me first that same night saying “so you’re not gonna text me first lol” what does this mean?
So earlier today at work I was talking (not even to her specifically, just in general) and I said something like “I’m not texting anybody first anymore.”
Later that night, off the clock, she texts me first:
“so you’re not gonna text me first lol”
That’s it.
What do we think this means? Is she just joking around, or is this her way of showing interest / testing the waters? How would you respond?
So earlier today at work I was talking (not even to her specifically, just in general) and I said something like “I’m not texting anybody first anymore.”
Later that night, off the clock, she texts me first:
“so you’re not gonna text me first lol”
That’s it.
What do we think this means? Is she just joking around, or is this her way of showing interest / testing the waters? How would you respond?
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She could be joking around or is interesting
The lol confused me
She’s testing the waters
What do you mean?
Flirting with you
I’m not sure. You’re the one who used the phrase “testing the waters.”
I thought she was joking because we were coworkers
She is, but she’s also being a little flirty
Can you explain why that is a little flirty? I'm curious to hear from a girl's perspective.
Because she knew you meant like in dating you weren’t going to text first
I didn't know she thought it that way. Me and her never hung out although we talked off the clock.
Don’t get too worked up. Might be just a casual flirtation. Try flirting back and see how she reacts.
Gtg. Night!
Ask her to hang out
Why?
She's DTF.
Why do you think that?
It´s not guaranteed, but she's reaching out to you. She's not doing it because she's bored. She's interested and wants to get to know you better.
She wanted to talk?
What for?